Why Leading With Gratitude Is More Important Than Ever

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Gratitude is not a strategy. It is a way of life. It is how you see the world around you. It is how you see yourself. It is how you do your work. It is how you treat people. It is how you face challenges. Above all, gratitude is a way of saying, ‘Life is great, no matter what!’

According to Adrian and Chester, ‘A lack of gratitude is a form of stupidity. It leaves on the table an enormously powerful tool not only to inspire people to reach their potential, but to actually better understand the true nature of their contributions.’

Developing genuine gratitude involves carefully observing what employees are doing, walking in their shoes, developing greater empathy, and sincerely trying to understand the challenges they face.’

‘Developing respect is about helping others grow and supporting people who make honest mistakes. It includes sharing the credit and absorbing blame when needed.’

‘When the right behaviors are in place, there is little time spent in fear.’

… gratitude provides clarity about whether the work they are doing is correct, valued by the boss or others, and making a significant contribution to the business.’

‘Expressing authentic gratitude is about much more than what a leader says, or even how she says it- it’s about why she says it.’

‘If employees are afraid of punitive actions, they are more likely to try to cover up problems.’

‘Leaders who develop empathy for others are great enablers of authentic gratitude.’

‘Creativity requires trust. Cultures of low trust, where managers react badly to failure, create too negative an environment for productivity and innovation to flow.’

‘Avoid the over-ask- especting too much from employees by asking for ideas that are out of their purview or asking too many questions at once.’

Source:

Adrian Gostick and Chester Elton (2020). Leading with Gratitude: Eight Leadership Practices for Extraordinary Business Results

How To Make Peace With Your Life

Love your life, no matter what. Do not compare your life to other people. Do not do it. Instead of looking at what other people are doing, why not take a massive action to change things in your own life?

Instead of thinking negatively about yourself, instead of doubting yourself, why not focus on what God has done for you?

Because God has done a whole lot for you. The fact that you are still here, still doing, still creating, it is enough to be grateful for. Gratitude is everything. When it comes to making peace with ourselves, gratitude is everything.

When you are grateful for what you have, more will come to you. When you are grateful for what God has done for you, nothing can stop you from achieving more things in your life.

You can’t achieve more in your life if you are not at peace with yourself. If you are at war with yourself, if you are not true to yourself, success is almost impossible to achieve. Because success follows peace, not war. Peace follows love, not hate. Peace follows people who are happy, who are doing the hard things, the things that other people don’t want to do. Success is not going to come to you if you do not have the right place for it.

Why is that? Because it is hard to create a great life if you are not at peace with your life, if you are not at peace with your brain, if you are not at peace with your boss, with yourself.

You cannot create a better world for yourself if you are not at peace with yourself, if you are not happy for other people, if you are not happy for yourself, if you don’t love yourself, if you are always disrespecting yourself.

You cannot live a great life if you are always looking at what other people are doing. Look, if you want to make peace with yourself, with your life, you must focus on your inner self. Because peace comes from within you. If you are not at peace with yourself, you are not going to be at peace with other people.

The question is, ‘Are you at peace with yourself?’