Tag: God

Who Are You Seeking?

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William James famously said, ‘Since you are like no other being ever created since the beginning of time, you are incomparable.”Yes, you are incomparable. Because there is no one like you. God created you to love yourself, not to compare yourself to other people.

Love yourself. If you don’t have the courage to love yourself, who do you think is going to love you? Nobody. Don’t spend your precious time looking for that person who will do everything for you, who will make you happy, who will love you. There is none out there.

Don’t look for that person who will be with you when things are bad, be with yourself. Don’t look for people to blame when things are not going your way, blame yourself.

Look, my friends, before you reach out to people for help, reach out to yourself first. Because everything you are looking for is already inside of you. Whatever you are looking for, you already have. All you need to do is to just believe in yourself. Believe that you are in charge of your life. Believe that you are not going to waste your life trying to please people.

You are not here to please people; you are here to create your own life. You are here to set your own standards. You are not here to live by other people’s standards. And to do that, you must detach yourself from the crowd. Don’t follow the crowd. Do your own thing. Follow your own path. Do not let people define your life for you. Define it yourself. Be comfortable with yourself. Because if you are not comfortable with yourself, you can’t define your purpose in life.

So to be really successful in life, you must define success in your own way. Because success means different things to different people. Whatever it is that you are pursuing, you must take charge of it. If not, you will lose it.

Stop Putting A Low Value On Yourself

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Stop putting a low value on yourself. You are better than that. You are good enough for yourself. Don’t strive to be perfect, strive to be you. Because if you are not you, you can’t give your best. And if you can’t give your best, you can’t live your best life. And if you can’t live your best life, then you must do something to change it. You can always live the best life that God has in store for you. But you can’t live your best life, you can’t give your best, you can’t lift other people up, if you are not yourself. To you, you are you. But to the world, you are something else. Don’t worry about other people’s opinions, worry about not putting a low value on yourself, on your work. Don’t let fear put you down. No matter what you are going through in your life, always focus on the lesson. Don’t miss the lesson. Your job is to focus on the lesson, not on why something happened. Remember that to get the best, you must explore your fears. You must face your fears. You must do what scares you. You must stand up for yourself. You must stand for something. If not, people will put a low value on you.