Marcus Buckingham On How To Take Your Performance To The Next Level

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‘So ally yourself with a couple of carefully chosen experts in your field.’

‘Discipline yourself to connect someone to something every day.’

‘If you’ve been impressed by a product, find the inventor and call him or her.’

‘Look for evidence that contradicts what you’ve come to believe.’

‘Learn to separate the small things you do spread goodwill- the gifts, the remembered birthdays, the special favors- from your actual request.’

‘So practice your stories, in particular, the stories in which you make fun of yourself.’

‘Work out a formula that captures your natural instincts for how to handle uncertainty.’

‘Find examples of how team members supported one another and then share these examples with the team.’

‘Volunteer for situations where your success depends on turning around an angry or obstinate person.’

‘Establish a routine where you are, with predictable frequency, gauging people’s reactions.’

‘Always stay in touch with those whom you have helped to learn and grow.’

Source

Marcus Buckingham (2015). StandOut 2.0: Assess Your Strengths. Find Your Edge. Win at Work

Forgiveness Is For You, Not Them

‘Forgiveness is for you, not them.

It is your life that you are trying to improve with forgiveness.

It is your life that will be lightened with love.

The weight of rancor is yours alone to carry or

you can simply choose to put it down.’-

Sanjiv Chopra & Gina Vild, The Two Most Imporant Days: How to Find Your Purpose- and Live a Happier, Healthier Life