You Can Make Yourself Happy

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Do you know who is responsible for your happiness?

Are you waiting for your best friend to make you happy?

Do you think you can make yourself happy?

Do you think your best friend or your government can make you happy?

If you are waiting for people to make you happy, if you are waiting for your boss to make you happy, it is time to change how you see yourself.

Your happiness is in your pocket. Your happiness is in your mind. Your happiness is in your actions. Your happiness is in your thoughts. If you want to make yourself happy, help people, serve others, reach out to the sick, be there for yourself. You can also make yourself happy by staying away from the things that are making you unhappy. For example, if you have a terrible friend, send him or her away.

But if you are responsible for your own unhappiness, it is time to change your mindset.

Happiness comes from you. It comes from your actions. If you want to be happy, if you want to live your life, you must think positive thoughts. Because everything starts with your thoughts.

Never put your happiness in people’s hands. It is dangerous. It is cancerous. It is not going to help you get better,

do better,

live better.

Always remember, you are the only person who can make you happy. No one can do it for you. You can make yourself happy. Try it and see what happens.

Why It Is Better To Be Alone

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Photo by Pavel Danilyuk

You can be lonely when you are with your best friend.

It is better to be alone than to be lonely when you are with your best friend.

You can be alone, but you are not lonely.

Alone time is the best way to heal yourself.

You have better be alone than to be with someone who is always disrespecting you.

It is better to be alone than to be with someone who does not know you.

It is better to be alone than to be with someone who is always treating you badly.

Even though you need other people to succeed in your life, you don’t need to be around toxic people.

Even though your life is not about you, you don’t need to be around someone who is always abusing you.

If you do, the person will never stop abusing you.

You have got to leave that person.

You need to do it for your life.

You need to do it for yourself.

You need to do it for others.

Because if you can’t stand up for yourself, you won’t be able to stand up for others.

If you can’t defend yourself, you won’t be able to defend other people.

Remember, your life is not about you, but about others.

Take care of yourself to take care of others.