Tag: Love

Waiting Is The Problem, Not You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Leadership, Management, Personal Development
woman looking at a big pink alarm clock
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Waitng is not your friend. It is your enemy number one. It makes you super comfortable, but nothing is growing in your life. Waiting is in your life to make feel comfortable. To keep you exactly where you don’t want to be.

If you do not know why you are not moving forward in your life, waiting is one of the reasons. But you can do something about it.

The best thing to do is to get up and start moving toward your dreams. Start planting. Don’t wait for the perfect time. Do not let fear stop you from living your dreams. Do not let people stop you from enjoying your life.

But before you start, ask yourself, ‘What do I really want for myself? How am I going to get it? ‘ Do not get scared. If you do not know what to do, ask for help.

Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. It means you are serious about what you want. It means you really want to get things done.

That is how to move forward. You move forward when you take action, when you have the courage to do what other people don’t want to do, when you have the courage to live your life, to take action.

Remember, action makes things possible. If you want to make things possible, you have to take action. Because waiting is the problem, not you.

Decide What You Are Going To Do With Your Time

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Improve Academy, Leadership, Management, Personal Development, Workplace Learning
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A great life starts with a great decision. But when it comes to your own life, do not wait for a perfect decision.

You have got to make one, not two, not three, decisions. Because if you do not make one, nothing is going to get done.

Decide now, today, not tomorrow. Because if you do not have the courage to decide for yourself, life is going to do it for you.

People are going to do it for you. If you don’t want that to happen to you, then begin with what you have, complete or incomplete, it doesn’t matter. What matters is that you have decided to make a difference in your life, that you are tired of living a terrible life, that you don’t want to live a life that is created by other people.

Decide for yourself. Don’t wait for permission to live your life. You don’t need that from anyone. All you need right now is you. You need you to support you. Because you are your number one supporter of your dreams.

Remember, life is moving forward, not backward. Life is not going to wait for you. People are not going to wait for you. Even death is not going to wait for you to get ready.

No, that is not how it works. That is not how life works. Life says, ‘If you want to achieve greatness, you have got to do the work. You don’t have time to waste.’ No matter how tough, you can make your life possible.

If what you are doing is difficult, don’t quit, spend more time with it. Easy things are easy because they are straightforward. Difficult things are difficult because they are loaded with different parts, with different components.

To get through them, you have to understand them. If not, you are not going anywhere. That is life. That is why you should never rush through important things.

No matter how smart you are, no one can rush through growth. No one can rush through life.

So if you want to create a better life, you have to decide to face your demons or you will never grow. You will stay where you don’t want to stay for the rest of your life.

I hope not. Because you can do more. The question is, ‘Will you do more?’