What Will Change Your Life

‘There is no greater illusion than

thinking the accomplishment of

some goal will change your life.

What will change your life is who

you become in the process of going for it.’- Brad Stulberg

Life is more than just one accomplishment. Life is more than what you are doing. It is more than what you do not yet have.

Life is about getting better every day. It is about getting outside of our comfort zone. It is about doing what matters. Because doing what matters is what life is about.

‘If what you are doing doesn’t make you happy, then it is not worth doing. If the people in your life are not there to support your growth, then they shouldn’t be there.’

Results don’t change lives. Lessons change lives. Whatever it is that you are doing, whether it is easy or not, whether you like it or not, pay attention to it.

Pay attention to what works. Pay attention to what is going on within you. Pay attention to what you are becoming. Because what you are becoming, your growth, your character development, is much more important than the results.

If you don’t focus on the process, the results don’t matter. But if you are brave enough to enjoy the process, to live the journey, other things will take care of themselves.

The Things That Matter

‘The things you care about

are the things that break your heart

are the things that give rise to excellence

and fill your life with meaning and joy.’- Brad Stulberg

When we care so much about something, no matter what it is, we will do things to keep it alive, to make it work, to bring it to life.

What we care about makes us feel special about ourselves. That is why you should pay attention to what makes you come alive, to what makes you really special, to what bring out the best in yourself.

Remember that it is not what you are doing that matters. It is how you feel about it that matters.

What you care about is the same thing that is going to make you unhappy when it is not working out.

And when you care about something, you have something to live for. When you care about other people, you put prople first.

When you care about yourself, you love yourself even more; you respect yourself even more.

No matter what is going on in your life, NEVER forget to take care of yourself. Because you matter.