How To Start Making A Difference In Your Life

Remember that life is more than just you. If you want to make a difference in your life, don’t forget about other people. If you want to make a difference in the world, don’t forget to put yourself first.

When you care for yourself, you care for others. When you care for others, you care for the world.

To make a difference in your life, you must be vulnerable. According to Julie P. Boyer, ‘Vulnerability powers leadership. Vulnerability powers change. Vulnerability also powers love and connection.’

Vulnerability says, ‘I am just like you. You and I are the same. We are one.’

To make a difference in your life, start your journey with what you have. ‘You don’t have to be able to imagine how you’ll find the work you’re meant to do, or how you’ll summon the courage to try. You don’t have to currently know that it’s possible.’

To make a difference in your life, don’t focus on what you are going through in your life. Because it is not going to be there forever. ‘Whether you’re at the bottom of a hole right now, or just starting to fall in, we’re going to get you out.’

When you’re operating from your true self, you don’t get paralyzed by fear, blame, avoidance, or doubt because you’ll be focused on what’s valuable to you, what you appreciate and what you are capable of.’

Everything changes when you shift out of the saboteur’s perspective and look at things through the lens of your true self. You thoughts will change, your perceptions will change, and your experience will change.’

Celebrate your new awareness! Awareness is the first and most powerful step in creating new choices for yourself.’

‘When you get good at dreaming, you empower yourself with the capacity to create.’

‘When you dream about what you want, you’re putting yourself in the position of receiving what you want and enjoying it.’

‘If you make dreaming a habit, you’ll find yourself less stressed out, less overwhelmed, and more empowered. You’ll build comfort in the unknown and become a strong decision maker at work and in your personal life.’

‘When you’re trying to create a change that requires you to grow as a person, normal problem-solving and goal-setting isn’t always enough to take you there.’

‘When you spend years, even decades, inside the same thoughts pattern, unconsciously believing made-up stories about who you are, you start paint that reality as ‘real.’

‘When you truly commit to creating an outcome before you know how you’ll make it happen, you activate an entirely different set of internal resources than you do with mere goal-setting.’

‘When you live from purpose, you do so from your heart. … Only a compelling purpose, one that comes from deep inside you, will keep drawing forward.’

‘Whoever you discover you are, and whatever you’re here on earth to do, you’ll do it in your whole life, not just your work.’

When you connect with your purpose, you’ll hear an internal ‘yes’ as you look at some options, and internal ‘no’ when you look at others. You’ll be seeing your options through the lens of your heart, the place of intuition and wisdom, which is often more dependable than logic alone.’

Finally, if you know what you want, ‘you can start acting on it now.’

Source:

Julie P. Boyer (2019). Just Give Me Meaningful Work: Escape Your Exhausting Job And Start Making A Difference

If You Really Want To Chase Your Dreams, These Quotes Are For You

If you believe in yourself, you can achieve your dreams. Because your self-belief creates your world.

If you want to elevate your life, you must first align your dream with who you are. According to Jason Derulo,

‘Life is short, and if you don’t love the art you’re creating and enjoy the road you’re taking toward your goal, what is the point?’

‘Your dream is within your reach.’

‘Stop being boring. Stop being derivative. Stop being scared.’

Because ‘if you want to have a chance of long-term success as a creative of any kind, you need to make creating content a part of your daily routine.’

That is what creators do. They create. They don’t wait for the perfect time. Because they know there is no such thing as the right time to do something.

Start today. Find a way. There’s always a way.’ If you mean it, you will find a way. If you are not serious about it, you will find excuses.

Excuses are why people don’t try. If you don’t try, nothing is going to happen. If you do try, even if you do not win, at least, you have learned something you can use in the future.

Whatever it is that you want to do, that you want to create, do not fear failure. Go for it. ‘If you fail nine times out of ten, but that tenth time you succeed, that’s really all that matters.’

Take more risks. But not useless risks. ‘Risks fail hard or they succeed big. That’s a good thing. Great art is often polarizing. People love it or hate it.’

Do not worry about what people are going to say. If you don’t create, they will say something. If you do create, they will say something. So why not create?

Fail or not, always try. Fail your way to success. But you have got to do the work. Because success comes after work, not before work. If you want to do well in your life, ‘you’ve got to put in the work if you want to succeed.’

Ask yourself, ‘Do I really want this thing?’ If you want it, then do what it takes to make it happen. Because ‘the route to your success lies in your routine. Don’t let anything or anybody knock you off that path.’

And wherever you are, whatever you do, ‘whatever you create, think about how can you simplify it so that people can join you instead of just watching you.

Because no one succeeds alone. If you want to succeed, do it with other people. And if it gets tough, ‘instead of lying around feeling sorry for myself, I focused all of my energy on using this setback as an opportunity.’ Because ‘there’s no such thing as free time, because every minute is valuable.’

You have to be willing to do the work that nobody else would. That’s how you’ll begin to set yourself apart.’

Life is all about deciding what’s most important to you and connecting that to how you’re going to spend your time.’

‘You can’t half-ass your way to fulfilling your creative vision.’

Art is always creation from your own perspective.’ ‘Yes, data is king, but it will only get you so far. The final, magical piece of the puzzle is you- your spark, your talent, and your unique voice.’

‘The only way to have a lasting career is to stay on that cutting edge. You have to take any and all opportunities, no matter where they come from.’

On your way up, don’t forget to reach back and help someone along the way.’

Experiment, succeed, fail, fall on your damn face, get back up…’ Because ‘halfway is not enough. There are too many other people out there trying to get to the same pot of gold that you are.’

Pick one thing that you’re going to focus all of your time and energy on. Pick it as soon as you can. And if you want the best possible chance of success, make it the thing that comes the most natural to you.’

You can never forget that there is a whole big world out there full of people who have the same interests as you, share the same passions as you, and who want to succeed and dominate in the same fields as you.’

‘You can’t be sleeping on the job, because there are so many other people out there who are wide- awake and are more than willing and ready to pass you by.’

Finally, ‘with the right mindset, you can achieve any goal, no matter how lofty.’

Source:

Jason Derulo (2023). Sing Your Name Out Loud: 15 Rules for Living Your Dream