Hi, my name is Bright. I am the founder of RecruitTheBest Institute, a personal and professional development platform.
RecruitTheBest Institute is about three things: Learning more, growing more, and improving more. We are not perfect. And we never stop learning more, growing more, and improving more. You can do the same. If you like what we are doing here, share with your friends.
Remember, no one succeeds alone. No one can do it all. We learn more when we learn with other people. We grow more when we grow with other people. And we improve more when we work with other people.
If you want to change your life, if you want to change your organization, if you want to build a powerful culture, if you want to turn your organization around, let’s do it together. Let’s learn together. Let’s grow together. Let’s improve together. We can achieve greatness when we do it together.
Your real identity is not your passport. Your real identity is not your job. Your identity is not your bank account. Your real identity is not your fancy cars. It is not your gated-community.
So what is your real Identity? Your real identity, again, is not who the world says you are. It is not who other people say you are. It is not who your friends say you are. It is not who your boss says you are. It is not what anyone can just talk about. It is not what any success can do for you. Your identity, your real identity, is who you say you are. Your identity is your face in the world. Your identity is your uniqueness. Your identity is how you treat yourself. It is how you treat other people. It is how you live your life. It is how you do your work. Above all, it is what matters the most to you.
The problem with identity is that many people are just walking around with the wrong faces. They are living their double lives. They are in the wrong jobs. They are in the wrong relationships. They are doing the wrong things. Why? Because they are answering to the world, not to themselves. They are paying attention to what the world wants, not what their souls are crying for.
If that is you, wherever you are, you can do something about it. Yes, you can change your identity. You can change your life by changing your thoughts, your feelings, and your actions. You can. The queston is, ‘Will you?’
If you want your life to change today, then you have got to be real with yourself. Ask yourself, ‘Am I really who I say I am?’ If yes, you are great! If not, you must get to work. Don’t stay the same. Don’t listen to those who want you to stay the same. Don’t let fear keep you stuck. Start small. The people you admire today started small. Successful people are not perfect. But they started. You can do the same. Start as a little baby. And never stop doing it until you get what you want. Because life is going to test you. Failure will test you. People will test you. Disappointments will test you. And success will test you.
Life is going to throw things at you. You will face problems. You will face hurdles that are bigger than you. But don’t let those things stop you from living your real identity. Because if you do not have the courage to put yourself out there, to do what is difficult, to face your fears, to face your demons, your identity will stay the same. Your life will stay the same. But you can change your path today, right now. But how?
Remember, you can change your identity. You can choose you. You can learn more about yourself. You can ask real questions. You can learn to do things differently. You can learn to take actions, actions that can change your life. You can learn how to attract great people. You can learn to set your own gaols. And pursue them without any delay. You can learn to be who you are. Above all, to really change your identity, your thoughts must be in alignment with your values. If not, you are not living your life. You are living other people’s dreams.
If that is what you want for yourself, then that is okay. You don’t need to change anything. But if you want something different, then you must push forward.
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No one is responsible for your life. No one is responsible for your thoughts. No one is responsible for your dreams. No one is responsible for your future. Why is that? Because your future belongs to you. Your life is yours. Your dreams are yours. You are responsible for making your life happen. If you are waiting for other people to come and help you, to lift you up, to make you bigger than you are, you are going to wait forever.
Don’t wait. Start living your life. Because you have waited long enough. Instead of waiting for other people, why not take your own personal responsibility? Why not take charge of your own life? Why not? What are you still waiting for?
If you are still waiting for the right time to start living your life, know this: ‘Whether you are living your life or not, life is not waiting for you. Life is always moving forward.’ So if you want to improve yourself, you must take responsibility for your life. When you take responsibility for your life, you stop blaming other people. You stop blaming your government. You stop blaming your parents. You stop blaming your teachers. You stop blaming yourself. When you take responsibility for your life, that is where you start to live your life. You stop waiting for other people to rescue you. You start living your life. You start doing things that are meaningful, things that make you happy. You start facing your fears. You start attracting positive things into your life.
Because you attract who you are, not who you are not. If you don’t want to be controlled by others, you must take responsibility for your life. If you do not have the courage to control your thoughts, your thoughts will take charge of your life. If you do not control your feelings, your feelings will control you. If you don’t take responsibility for your actions, your actions will control you. Your actions will take charge of your life.
When that happens, you are no longer living your life; you are living by default. You are not living your own life; you are living the life designed by other people. Please don’t let that happen to you. Because you are bigger than your circumstances. If you don’t want to be controlled by other people, you must take responsibility for your life.
When you take responsibility for your life, things change. You change. Your life changes. It is through taking responsibility for your life that you make yourself stronger, better. Because taking personal responsibility frees you to take care of what is important to you, to face your fears, to do the hard things that you have been avoiding.
Taking personal responsibility for your life gives you the freedom to choose your future, to do what you love. When you take your own personal responsibility, you can create a solution to the problem you are trying to solve. When you take personal responsibility for your life, you stop blaming other people for your failures. When you take personal responsibility for your life, you create more opportunities for yourself.
Remember, your life doesn’t change when you think about changing your life. Your life changes when you take responsibility for your life.
Whatever it is that is holding you back from taking reponsibility for your life, let it go.
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