How To Lead So That People Will Follow You

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Great leaders have followers. Poor leaders have themselves.

The question is, according to Erika Andersen, ‘What is it … that makes someone willing to consider one person his or her leader but not another?’

‘A truly farsighted leader envisions a possible future that responds to and resonates with people’s aspirations for their individual and collective success. … True visionaries often see possibilities where others see difficulty and dead-ends.’

‘People who work with a passionate leader don’t wonder what she stands for or whether she will abandon her principles when the going gets rough.’

When the leader commits honestly, based on his or her authentic beliefs about what’s important, people tend to feel it and be drawn into new levels of engagement.’

When people observe their leader behaving courageously over time, they are much more willing to follow him or her into new territory. … When the leader lacks courage, people feel as though they need to protect themselves.’

‘When others see that you’re willing to do something that could damage you personally in order to support the success of the organization, they are hugely more likely to line up behind you.’

When leaders are wise, we see that they’re considering our welfare and that they’ll do their best to make sure that the enterprise succeeds in a way that supports the success of the greatest possible number of us, their followers.’

A leader who is fully generous shares both the power to make decisions and the responsibility for dealing with the consequences of those decisions.’

The trustworthy leader tells the truth and keeps her word. She speaks the whole truth (sometimes omission is as much a lie as an outright misstatement) and even tells the truth about not being able to tell the truth.’

‘When a leader is worthy of trust, people reward him or her by becoming more trustworthy themselves. Trust is the essential bond between a true leader and her followers.’

Trustworthy leaders are competent. They demonstrate the capability to do the job they have been given (and are honest about any deficits in that regard and how they’ll go about addressing them), and they get the results they’ve committed to achieving.’

Source

Erika Andersen (2012). Leading So People Will Follow

Finerman’s Top Ten Rules For Business And Life

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If you have the courage to do the right things, you will get the right results. If you don’t, then be okay with what you will get.

According to Finerman,

If you don’t proactively want success for yourself, how are you going to convince others that you’re worthy of attaining it?’

Act as if, believe as if, plan as if you can and will succeed. There is no reason not to.’

‘You can’t hope the plans happen; you have to make them happen.’

A first job is a chance to get paid to learn. So learn all you can.’

If decisions are not of great consequence, don’t give them a lot of space.’

We have the power to control our emotions; sometimes we just haven’t developed the desire and the right intellectual response to do so.’

‘Figure out what it is you do a half-assed job at, or hate, and let it go.’

When you have a big decision to make, wait as long as you can before deciding.’

‘Don’t wait for the fear of failure to subside; move forward as if isn’t there.’

‘If we survive failure, we haven’t failed– we’ve learned and we’ve grown stronger, scars and all.’

Don’t belabor a transaction for a small amount of money. If you want to sell something, get out there and sell it. Don’t try to squeeze every last penny.’

‘Markets can change very quickly. Do not extrapolate well into the future what the environment is right now.’

Source

Karen Finerman (2013). Finerman’s Rules: Secrets I’d Only Tell My Daughters About Business and Life