Tag: Speaking

Why You Should Follow Yourself

Empty Road
Photo by Johannes Plenio

“Never follow the man who tells you to follow him.”

“Never follow the man who tells you to follow him. He is only telling you to follow his motives and mind. Always listen to the man who speaks through his heart and does not tell you to follow him. He only wants you to follow the teachings from his heart and not his mind. A man who tells you to follow him will turns followers into his company, while a true leader who does not tell you to follow him, will sit in the company of his followers.”- Suzy Kassem

Tell People How To Treat You

Green and Red Abstract Painting
Photo by Steve Johnson

“Define your terms, you will permit me again to say, or we shall never understand one another.“- Voltaire, poet

“Define your terms.” Tell people how to treat you. You own your life. If you don’t have the courage to tell people how to treat you, they will abuse you. Do not settle for less. And do not be afraid to ask for what you want.

Dr. Phil says, “We teach people how to treat us.” We do it every day. We shut up instead of speaking up. You can make a choice today. To do that, you must first know what you want, your values, and where you are going. If not, it won’t work. And they will continue to tell us how to live our lives. Do you want that for yourself? I don’t.