How To Level Up Your Life

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Growth doesn’t happen by accident. If you want it, you have got to do the work, the hard work.

Do not focus on what you do not know. Instead, focus on what you can do to change your situation.

According to Stacey Abrams and Lara Hodgson, ‘You don’t have to be an expert to solve a problem. A lack of knowledge can be a blessing.’

‘Get comfortable with ambiguity. Not having all the answers at the outset can lead you to new ideas and solutions you never would have considered.’

‘Share your ideas with others. … If you don’t share it, no one can help.’

Dig deeper to find the root causes or systemic issues rather than solving for symptoms.’

Acknowledge hurdles and forces that are bigger than you, but don’t let that deter you. Instead, find others to help you tilt the scales in your favor.’

You don’t know what you don’t know. Focus on finding the right questions over the right answers.’

Time kills all deals. Don’t let perfect get in the way of progress.’

Do not play the blame game. Focus on solutions and move on.’

When something fails, mourn and then move on. The next opportunity is around the corner.’

Sometimes what is holding you back is not a glass ceiling but rather a sticky floor. Don’t let your self-doubt overcome you. Why shouldn’t you be the one to solve this problem?’

Source:

Stacey Abrams and Lara Hodgson (2022). Level Up: Rise Above the Hidden Forces Holding Your Business Back

Are You Ready To Face Your Reality?

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Your reality is your reality. Your reality is not my reality. And my reality is not your reality. It is subjective. It is what you say it is.

Not getting what you want is exactly what you need.‘- Gina Mollicone- Long

If you want to know more about your world, your reality, you must be honest with yourself.

If you are ready to explore your world, if you are ready to know more about yourself, about why you do what you do, it is going to be a long journey.

Why not start with these eight ways?

When you are down, don’t stay down.

President Obama was right when he said, ‘The only thing that is the end of the world is the end of the world. And so, you get knocked down, you get up, brush yourself off, and you get back to work.’ Yes, the only thing that is really the end of the world is the end of the world. When you are down, when you fail at something, don’t let it define you.

Unstuck yourself.

The only thing that can stuck you is you. You can unstuck yourself. Whatever you are going through in your life, according to Obama, is not the end of the world. The only thing that is the end of the world is when you don’t get back up. Remember, failure is not a problem, but not trying again is.

Choose happiness.

Nothing in life is perfect. To make yourself happy, you must choose happiness. Do not focus on what is going in your life. Instead of focusing on what you are not good at, why not enjoy what you are good at? According to Gina Mollicone- Long, ‘Circumstances don’t make you happy or unhappy, but your choices do.’ If you are not happy, pay attention to your thoughts. Do not carry negative thoughts around. They are too heavy for you. If you want to enjoy your life, you must drop negative thoughts.

Focus on solutions, not problems.

According to Gina Mollicone- Long, ‘When we focus on problems, we send a signal to the Universe that we want more problems.’ You have many things to celebrate in your life. A problem is not one them. If you want more solutions, you must focus on solutions. Do not forget that you get what you think about. Life is better when we focus on solutions. Yes, you can’t stop things from happening. When they do, focus on how you are going to make things better.

Wherever you are, always Recruit The Best!