Michael Bar-Eli On How To Enhance Your Performance In Management And Work

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‘Aim for an optimal state of stress and arousal to keep you on your toes, staying involved and productive, without overworking yourself or entering a state of chronic stress.’

‘Remember that obstacles and tasks are subjective- your personal perception can be a major determinant in how you handle stress and how it affects your performance.’

‘Don’t put extra pressure on yourself- when you do so, you subjectively create a highly stressful situation under which you are more likely to choke.’

‘Take advantage of advice from mentors, bosses, and experienced colleagues, while developing new skills and embracing new opportunities.’

‘When faced with a daunting task, ultilize the concept of backward generalization– you’ve overcome larger obstacles in the past, so this one should be a piece of cake.’

‘Don’t follow the knee-jerk reaction to respond immediately to every snide or rude e-mail. In most cases, it will be better not to respond at all.’

‘Try out a small innovation every day, including slight changes to your daily activities that may lead to greater productivity.’

‘Realize that your place in the office hierarchy is important even if you’re not the star employee- understanding your role will help you work with your colleagues more productively and increase team performance.’

‘Be flexible at work and in your own career path.’

‘Maintain a sense of humility- don’t let your ego get in the way of making the right decisions for your company or team.’

‘No matter the circumstances, treat failure and mistakes as opportunities to learn and progress.’

‘Focus on properly and successfully performing an action or task, not necessarily on the outcome.’

‘If you’re feeling disengaged, get up from your behind your desk and take a break with coworkers or friends.’

‘Set your own task-related goals and then concentrate on fulfilling them and improving yourself, instead of constantly comparing yourself to, and trying to get ahead of, your colleagues and competitors.’

Source

Michael Bar-Eli (2018). Boost!: How the Psychology of Sports Can Enhance Your Performance in Management and Work

Why You Should Go Back To Yourself

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Accept yourself. Love yourself. Be yourself. Stop running away from yourself. Stop treating yourself badly. Stop it! Because you can never get away from yourself.

If you do not stop it, you are not helping yourself. You are making your situation even worse. That is not good. That is not where you want to be. If you want to live your life, you have got to know who you really are. You have got to accept yourself. You have got to love who you are. And you must stop pretending to be who you are not. You must get back to yourself. You must get to accept yourself, no matter what.

Once you accept yourself for who you are, once you love who you are unconditionally, once you start to get comfortable with yourself, you will start to see your life in a whole new way. You will start to feel better about yourself.

If you have been away from yourself, you have got to get back to yourself. Because you are who you know. You are who you are. You are not going to be able to abandon your true self. Because there is no one out there who can live like you, who can do like you, who can think like you, who can talk like you, who can smile like you. No one. So get back to yourself. Your real self is waiting. Stop faking things. Stop living a fake life. Stop doing things to make people happy. Stop living for other people. Start living for you. Because you deserve it. Get back to yourself. There is nothing out there.

There is nothing out there. People are not who they say they are. People are going through things. Some are not who they say they are. Others are really good at faking it till you make it. Don’t go there. Because you are enough. Because you are good enough to design your own life, to live the way you want to live, and to have what you want to have.

Don’t wait for external forces to help you get back to yourself. You can do it for you. Right now, get back to who you really are. You know who you are, don’t you ? Know it or not, one thing is clear here: you are responsible for your life. You are also responsible for your freedom. You are responsible for getting back to yourself.

You are responsible for your progress. You are responsible for your security. Your peace is not going to come from outside yourself. Your happiness is not going to come from outside yourself. Your future is not going to grow from outside yourself. The only way forward is through you. It is to face yourself, not to run away from yourself, not to wear a mask. That won’t work.

Stop hurting yourself. Stop it. Because what you are looking for is looking back at you. Only by accepting yourself can you build a better life for yourself. Only by trusting yourself can you become a better human being. And only by being yourself, by being comfortable with yourself and by loving yourself can you find a better path forward.

No matter what, no matter where you are, the only way forward is to get back to yourself, your real self. Why not now?