Why You Don’t Get What You Want

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Anne Frank said, “I still believe, in spite of everything, I still believe that people are really good at heart.” If you are not getting what you want, then maybe you are not getting something right. Or maybe you are not asking the right questions.

To get what you want in your life, you must do the work. You must get out of your comfort zone. Because what you want is not coming to you. If you really want it, you must go and meet what you want.

To do that, you must go after what you want. You must ask the right questions. You must get really good at asking the right people.

Because the best way to get what you want is to go after it, is to ask for it. If you do not ask for what you want, you won’t get it. Whatever you want, do not be scared to ask for it, to chase it, to go after it.

Life gives to the brave.

Life helps the brave.

Life supports the brave.

From now on, no matter what you want for yourself, do not be afraid to go after it with all your might.

Remember, to get, you must ask.

To win, you must play.

To reap, you must plant.

To know, you must learn.

To grow, you must eat.

To do, you must think.

To receive, you must expect.

To get, you must ask. Because getting is asking.

If you are not getting what you want, then you should ask yourself, “Am I asking enough?”

How To Plant Your Own Seed In The Ground

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To achieve your purpose, you must first know what you want. If you don’t know what you want, what you want to achieve, where you are going, how can you achieve it, how can you get there? To start, you must nurture your potential. You must plant your own seed in the ground. You must find out what it is that you want to do with your life. Do not make the mistake of chasing what other people are doing. Don’t do it. And even if you did pursue their dreams, when you are done, you are still going to come back to your own dream. Is that not a life wasted? As Charles Darwin once said,”A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.” Time is life. Life is time.

Don’t waste your life with people who don’t know what they are doing, where they are going, and how to get to where they are going. To put it simply, don’t waste your time with people who are confused. Instead, plant your own seed in the ground. Don’t forget it. Don’t ignore it. Because if you want your dreams to grow, your seeds to grow, you must water them. You must give them the right nutrients. You must work to make your dreams happen. You must work really hard to create your own future, if you are to have one.

Your future is about knowing who you are in the present. And to nurture your seed, you must never stop learning about yourself. Why is that? Because what you knew about yourself yesterday has expired. You are a human being. You are changing every day. So never stop learning about yourself. Focus on what you want to do, do it with all your might, don’t give it up, water it, feed it, and make it your mission on this earth no matter how tough. Because you will always get what you sow.