You are not the result of what is happening to you right now. What is happening to you is the result of your inner life.
If you do not like where you are in your life, in your work, in your relationships, then change it. Do not get stuck in a rut. Change is painful, but doable. You can do it. Mandy Hale said, “Change is painful, but nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.” Do not get stuck, get going.
You are not here to get stuck; you are here to get going. Do not waste your time. Use your time wisely. Do not just go through life. If you want to get to where you really want to be, you must grow through life.
As Jim Rohn once said, “Pay attention. Don’t just stagger through the day.” To accomplish your dreams, you must grow through the day. You have a purpose. You are here to fulfill your purpose. You have something important to do here on earth. If you do not think so, then why are you here?
Dream. Do not be afraid to dream. Dream Big dreams. Dream small dreams. But just dream. Never stop dreaming. But remember, if you do not make your dreams happen, they won’t grow. You are your dreams. If you want them to grow, they will grow. If you want them to die, they will die. The choice is yours.
Yes, the choice is yours. But do not go through the day without a dream. Build your own dreams. Make your dreams happen. Do not live other people’s dreams. Build your own dreams. Farrah Gray said, “Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs.” Is that what you want for yourself? If it is not, then start building your own dreams. It is never too late to start.
“Growth is the only evidence of life.”- John Henry Newman
“Self-growth is tender; it’s holy ground. There’s no higher investment.”- Stephen Covey
“Growth is just awareness of more and more.”- Elizabeth Goudge
“Growth for the sake of growth is a cancerous madness.”- Edward Abbey
If you want to grow, go where no one is going. If you want to grow in your life, go where you are scared to go. And do not be scared when you are faced with problems. When you are faced with a problem, face it with your heart. Because problems bring growth. In his book The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success: A Practical Guide to the Fulfillment of Your Dreams, Deepak chopra writes, “You can look at every problem you have in your life as an opportunity for some greater benefit. You can stay alert to opportunities by being grounded in the wisdom of uncertainty. When your preparedness meets opportunity, the solution will spontaneously appear.” When you see a problem, learn from it. It is not going to destroy you. Instead, it will make you better. It will bring out the best in you.
“Life is a test. It is only a test.”- Richard Carlson
The only way to learn from a problem is to see it as a test. If not, you will not be able to attack it. According to Richard Carlson, “When you look at life and its many challenges- as a test, or series of tests, you begin to see each issue you face as an opportunity to grow, a chance to roll with the punches. If, on the other hand, you see each new issue you face as a serious battle that must be won in order to survive, you’re probably in for a very rocky journey.” When you face a problem, think about what you can learn from it. Do not focus on the stress. Instead of focusing on the stress, why not not focus on the process.
“Rather than struggling with your issue, see if there is something you can learn from it.”- Richard Carlson
If you want to grow, you must challenge yourself. You must have the courage to deal with your problems. Why is that? Because you are not going to grow without solving hard problems. Remember, the world is looking for courageous people to solve hard problems, not for weak people. Because it takes courage to win. If your courage is not big enough, you can develop it. And the right time to start is now.