If You Do Not Change What Is Not Working, You Cannot Focus On What Is Working For You

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Growth is not always comfortable. Growth requires us to leave where we are, to do something different, to learn something new, to meet someone who annoys us all the time, and to be ready to grow.

We are human beings. We want to grow, but we don’t want to be uncomfortable. In truth, if we really want to grow, to be happy, to expand, we must be willing and be ready to be uncomfortable. There is no success without pain. There is no happiness without darkness. You cannot move from where you are to where you want to be if you are not ready to be uncomfortable.

It feels good to repeat the same thing every day. That is how we operate. We love routine tasks. We love to stay where we are used to. But if you want to stretch yourself, you must leave your safe zone. As Peter Drucker famously said, “If you don’t abandon, you can’t innovate.” Yes, if we want to happy, we must abandon what is making us unhappy.

If we want to grow in life, we must abandon the things that are holding us back. If we want to be healthy, we must take care of our minds. If we want to have peace of mind, we must do the right things.

You cannot expect to have peace of mind if you are doing the wrong things. It is only the right things that will bring you peace of mind. If you do right, expect right. If you do wrong, expect wrong. You can change the direction of your life by changing your thoughts. You have the power to do it. Do it yourself.

How To Take Charge Of Your Life

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“To be in charge of your life is to be 100% in control of your life.” That is what REAL life is all about.

You can’t succeed if someone else is in charge of your life. You can’t succeed if you are not in charge of your OWN life. It is not easy to be in charge, but if you can stand the heat, it will be better for you and the people around you.

To take charge of your life, here some strategies for you, according to Dr Wayne W. Dyer.

Choose your personal fulfillment. Dr Wayne W. Dyer said, “The essence of greatness is the ability to choose personal fulfillment in circumstances where others choose madness.”

Focus on what matters. If you want to take charge of your life, don’t pay attention to irrelevant things. Focus on things that will get you closer to your dreams. Dr Wayne W. Dyer said, “Taking charge of yourself involves putting to rest some very prevalent myths.”

Control your thoughts. Take care of your thoughts. If you want to feel good about yourself, think positive thoughts. Because your thoughts control your actions. So if you can control your thoughts, you can control how you react to things happening around you. Control your circumstances. Don’t allow circumstances to take charge of your life. Dr Wayne W. Dyer said, “If you control your thoughts, and your feelings from your thoughts, then you are capable of controlling your own feelings.”

Taking charge of your life starts with awareness. Dr Wayne W. Dyer said, “Taking charge of yourself begins with awareness.” You can take charge of your life if you know who you are, where you going, who is going with you, what you want, and how to get there. If you don’t know these things, you can’t take charge of your life.

Choose happiness. Happiness is a choice, and it is yours to make. You can be happy if you want to be happy. You can do that by thinking happy thoughts. Don’t think about negative things. If you catch yourself doing it, change it.

“Taking charge of yourself involves more than simply trying on new thoughts for size. It requires a determination to be happy and to challenge and destroy each and every thought that creates a self- immobilizing unhappiness in you.”– Dr Wayne W. Dyer

“It is better to take charge of your life than to take care of your life.”

Are you ready to take charge of your life?