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Do not betray yourself. Do not disrespect yourself. The relationship you have with yourself is yours and yours alone. Do not allow other people to control your life. Your life is your life. Whether people like your life or not, do not betray yourself. Whether people like you or not, do not give up on yourself. Whether people want you to succeed or not, do not betray your life. Because you are who you are. You are not here to copy other people. You are here to live your own life, to enjoy your life.
Do not worry yourself about what other people are saying about you. They have no control over your life. You are the owner of your life. You are responsible for your life, for your actions. Do not separate yourself from your soul. Your soul needs you. Because the more you separate yourself from your soul, the less your life will work for you. You will find it really hard to find happiness. Why is that? Because you are not who you say you are.
No matter what, you should never betray yourself. Always be true to yourself. Always respect yourself, your life. If you are not honest with yourself, there can be no growth in your life. Because growth, real growth, starts with you. In the words of Theodore Parker, “Never violate the sacredness of your individual self-respect. Be true to your own mind and conscience, your heart and your soul. So only can you be true to God.” If you want to know God, if you want to know yourself, you must be honest with yourself.
Who are the people in your life? What are they doing to help you achieve your goals? Are they helping or hurting you? Are they supporting your dreams?
To grow, you need food. To be successful in your life, you need great people around you. If the people around you are not helping you get closer to your goal, if they are not supporting you, if they are poisoning your mind, if they do not believe in you, if you are not comfortable with them, let them go.
Because you cannot grow when you are surrounded by negative, toxic people. No matter how good you are, you need great people to lift you up when you are down. It does not matter who they are. If they are not helping you get better, let them go.
Do not hang out with the wrong people. And do not do the wrong things just because you want to be with these people. It is better to be alone than to be with people who don’t deserve you. If you are always with toxic people, people who don’t know what they are doing, who are running around in circles, you will never grow.
Yes, you cannot do everything alone. You need people to help you get what you want, but you don’t need toxic people. They do not have anything valuable to add to your life. If you are not adding something to your life, you are subtracting something from your life. In this case, when you are not learning from great people, you are wasting your time with talkers.
No matter where you are, no matter where you are working, no matter what you are doing, always find ways to learn from other people. Because they have what you don’t have. They know what you don’t know. They have done what you have not done. If you want to grow, you should never stop learning from other people. And you should never allow people who don’t deserve you to control your life. It is better to be alone than to be with the wrong people. Who are you hanging out with?