Tag: Take charge

Why You Should Take Charge Of Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Your life is your life to live. Your life is your life to celebrate. Your life is your responsibility.

If you are not in charge of your life, you will never achieve your full potential. You will never stop chasing your dreams.

If someone else is doing the driving, then you are not going to get to where you really want to be.

If you are not in charge of your life, then who is doing the thinking for you? Who is making your decisions concerning your life? Who is doing the work for you?

Look, if you want to experience a different life, you have got to take your life back. You can’t afford to be a bystander in your own life.

To win, you must play in the game of life. You must get your hands dirty. You must not be afraid to confront yourself.

You must be your own supporter. Do not wait for everything to be perfect before you fly. Do not focus on what is missing, what you do not have, what you can’t do. Don’t live in your past. Because living in the past is not being in charge. You are in charge of your life when you live in the present.

You are in charge of your life when you have the courage to walk away from what is not working for you. You are in charge of your life when you have the power to face difficult challenges, when you have the courage to face your fears.

You are in charge of your life when you focus on possibilities, not limitations. You are in charge of your life when you have the faith to believe in yourself when others don’t.

And you are in charge of your life when you have the courage to say, ‘I do not know everything.’ Above all, you are in charge of your life when you are comfortable with yourself, no matter what.

The question is, ‘Are you in charge of your life?

To Get What You Want, Do These Four Things Every Day

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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It does not matter what you want.
To get it, you must take actions. 

Talk brings nothing. But actions bring results. 
If you want to achieve your greatness,
you can do it. 
Just remember that you are responsible for your life.

And to get what you want, you must do these four things every day:

You must always reach out for help.
Do not waste your time. It is better to reach out for help than 
to waste your time. Time is precious. Do not forget that.

You must reject negative thoughts. 
Why is that? Because you will never achieve your dreams 
if you do not reject negative thoughts. 
They will kill your dreams. If you want your dreams 
to stay alive, you must replace negative thoughts with positive ones.

You must take full responsibility for your life. 
And you must stop blaming other people for your problems. 
They are not responsible for what you are going through.
You are responsible for your own life. 
To design your life the way you want it, you must take charge of your life.

Learn to say yes to what is important to you.
Everything is not important to you.
Pursue what is important to you, not what is not important to you.
If you are not getting closer to your dreams, then check what you are 
doing every day.
As the old saying goes, ''How we spend our days is of course how we spend our lives.''.