The Only Way To Lose

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You are not done when the game is still going on. You are not done when your soul still have more to give. You are not done when other people are still playing. You are not done when you still have a lot to give to the world. You are not done when you are still growing, when you are still developing yourself.

You are not done because work is not just about what you are doing. It is also about what you are becoming. And what you are becoming is not a one-time thing. Becoming never ends.

You are not done when you are tired; you are done when you are done. When you are not here anymore, when you are dead.

When you say, ‘I am done’, it means there is nothing to explore anymore in your life. It means there is nothing to do anymore. It means there is nothing to learn anymore. It means there is nothing to do with other people anymore.

Is that true? Is it true that we don’t have anything to do anymore? Is it true that you are truly done?

If it is true that you are, then what are you going to be doing for the rest of your life?

Since you are still here, you still have a lot to do. You still have a lot to learn, to learn again. Don’t limit yourself. Do not let fear stop you from doing the work.

Because the only way to fail is to say, ‘I am done.’ The only way to stay where you are for the rest of your life is to say, ‘I am done.’ The only way to lose in life is to say, ‘I can’t do it.’ The only way to fail in life is to stop doing, to stop living your life. The only way to lose in life is to stop growing, to stop moving forward.

If you don’t want to get stuck in your own rut, you have to keep moving forward. You have to keep doing. You have to keep challenging yourself.

If not, you are in a rut.

‘Doubt Your Limits, Not Your Abilities’

‘Ignore the haters. They will always be there, but you decide whether or not to let them drag you down.’

‘Embrace that you need to be positive to help the people around you thrive. You can choose to be the person who lifts others up, or the person who brings them down.’

‘Find the silver lining. If you can’t see there is potential good in a situation, you can’t make it happen.’

‘If you are going to spend any of your precious energy doubting something, doubt your limits, not your abilities.’

‘Opportunity is all around you, but if you are too busy gawking at obstacles, you’ll be blinded to those opportunities.’

‘It’s amazing how much better everyone else gets when you work on yourself.’

‘Nothing is more powerful than a positive mind.’

‘Opportunity doesn’t come knocking on your schedule. Good things come to those who persist.’

‘Lighten up and get going. If you don’t go the right way immediately, so what? Just dust yourself off, find the humor, and give it another go.’

‘Don’t think about what is possible for the person you used to be last year. Instead, think about what is possible for the person you want to become.’

Source:

Jessica Dilullo Herrin (2016). Find Your Extraordinary: Dream Bigger, Live Happier, and Achieve Success on Your Own Terms