You Are Not Rejected. You Are Redirected

Life is full of rejections. When you face one, it is not about you. Rejections are about what you are selling, not about you.

Because you are more than that. No one can reject you. If you are for yourself, no one can reject you.

If you are struggling with rejections, you are not alone. Here are some quotes that you can use to overcome future rejections.

‘When you tell someone a new idea, you are looking for approval- we all are. But that doesn’t always mean you need it in order to move forward.’- Angela Duckworth

Sometimes a work-related heartbreak can inform your next steps in a useful way.’- Andie Kramer

You don’t have to accept a below-average performance review in an all-or-nothing way. You can work on critiques that resonate but call bullshit on the ones that don’t.’- Isa Watson

Self-reflection is useful; self-recrimination is not. You have to keep going.’- Sarah Koenig

A rejection in the moment feels so dramatic because it’s what is right in front of you.’- Laura Weidman Power

Tracking rejections can help you find informative patterns.’- Laura Huang

Major, heartbreaking disappointments can happen on the path to success.’- Rachel Platten

Doubling down on yourself and working harder than you ever thought possible can help you get through rejection.’- Rachel Platten

There’s more than one way to reach a goal.’- Elizabet Bell

When someone rejects your creative work, it just means that they can’t see a path for it. It doesn’t mean there isn’t one.’- Michelle Tea

Sometimes ‘no’ is just ‘not this and not yet.’- Alysia Reiner

Practice allowing yourself to not be perfect.’- Keri Smith

You don’t have to pay attention to every critique, and you don’t need to be good at everything.’- Keri Smith

A rejection can feel like it was your ‘one shot at success and fulfillment.’ That doesn’t mean that it is.’- Emily Winter

‘It sounds strange, but aiming for rejection can lead to success.’- Emily Winter

You don’t have to take every opportunity; it’s okay to reject the ones that don’t feel right.’- Sam Jay

Rejection might be more about the rejecters than about you. And you might just have the last laugh.’- Roz Chast

If you always protect yourself from rejection, you may not build the emotional stamina you will need to deal with rejection when it happens.’- Kate Manne

Getting rejected can lead you to take initiative in ways you wouldn’t have imagined.’- Tara Schuster

Pay attention to the work that brings you satisfaction- and the work that doesn’t.’- Ana Homayoun

‘In a moment of transition, take time to think about everything you’ve done workwise, even some of the work that never felt like part of a ‘career.’- Ana Homayoun

A mindset of ‘I’ve got nothing to lose! can be useful if it helps you to imagine new opportunities and be brave.’- Jessica Bennett

Sometimes it’s okay to reject an opportunity, even if everyone around you tells you that you’re crazy to turn it down.’- Unmi Abkin

You may fail once in a while, but that does not mean you ara a failure. Learn from your mistakes and then get right back on your path.’- Unmi Abkin

Behind the rejections are real people, and it’s a good idea to acknowledge their humanity.’- Pamela Shifman

Source:

Jessica Bacal (2021). The Rejection That Changed My Life: 25+ Powerful Women on Being Let Down, Turning it Around, and Burning it up at Work.

When Other People Reject You, Do Not Reject Yourself

Some people will accept you for who you are, not for what you can do for them. Other people will accept you for what you have, for what you can do for them, for always giving to them.

Whether things are okay or not, whether you are winning or losing, whether you are passing or failing, if you want to experience the life that God has created for you, you must first accept yourself.

What does it mean to accept oneself? Self-acceptance is everything. You need it when things are good. You need to accept who you are when things are good, and you need to accept yourself when things are not going well. Do not reject yourself before other do it for you.

If you do not take care of yourself, if you do not know what you want in your life, people will take advantage of you. Do not let that happen. Because you are not here to be accepted by all. You are here to love yourself, to live for you. You are enough. You don’t need the whole world to love you.

You need you to love you. You need you to beat your own path forward. When things are tough, never forget to love youself. when you are alone, love yourself. When you are weak, do not reject yourself. When you are down, feeling tired, feeling exhausted, do not reject yourself. Because God loves you. He does. He will never let you down.

No matter what you are going through in your life, you can make it through. Do not focus on what is not working. Instead, focus on what you are doing to bring more light into your life.

Because life is light. Because you are the light of the world. If you want to enjoy your light, you must choose you. Don’t try to control other people. Because you can’t. But you can control yourself. If you can control yourself, you can control your life.

Before you go, remember this: ‘When other people reject you, don’t reject yourself.’