Tag: positive mindset

Why You Don’t Need To Be Perfect

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Photo by Anna Shvets

“To be nobody- but yourself- in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else- means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.”- e.e. cummings, poet

Let us face it, my friends. Who is perfect? Are you perfect? Is the world a perfect place? If we really want to be honest with ourselves, the answer is NO. So if nothing is perfect, then why are we fighting for it?

I am not perfect. I make all kinds of mistakes everyday. But I am okay with that. They don’t define me. And they can’t define me. Because you are who you say you are. If you say you are perfect, regardless of where you are, what is happening around you, within you, to you, you are perfect. That is what you should be telling yourself every day.

“If you say you are perfect, regardless of where you are, what is happening around you, within you, to you, you are perfect.”

When you wake up in the morning, celebrate your imperfections. Don’t worry yourself about them. Just celebrate the fact that you are imperfect. If you are completely perfect, if you have nothing to worry about, the world will be a boring place for you to live in. Perfection is boring!

If you want to grow in your life, don’t try to be perfect, try to always do your best. If you focus on being perfect, you will not enjoy anything in life, not even yourself. To overcome perfectionism, you must believe in yourself. Don’t try to be who you are not. It won’t work. And don’t let negative people talk you into ignoring your life, your purpose, your growth. In the words of e.e. Cummings, “Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.” When you believe in yourself, everything will work out well for you, not against you.

The real question is: Do you have the courage to believe in yourself? e.e. Cummings said, “It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.” To grow up in your life, you must first overcome yourself. If you have not done that, you can’t overcome the world.

Do not let perfectionism stop you from talking to me. We will fight it together. We are all in this together. You are not alone. Whatever you want to do, go for it. The more you do, the better for you. Ralph Waldo Emerson told us many years ago that “all life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.”

That is how we should approach our lives. If you can see life as it really is, if you can see things as they really are, you can achieve anything in your life. Again, the question is: Are you ready to love yourself as you really are? Are you ready to let go of who you think you are supposed to be? Are you ready to ignore other people’s opinions? Are you ready to stand up for yourself? Are you ready to stop creating who you are not? Are you ready to let go of negative friends? Are you ready to connect with yourself? If you are ready, the world is ready.

How Your Words Can Change Your Life Forever

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Photo by Dziana Hasanbekava

If you don’t know what you are telling yourself, you don’t really know who you are, what you want, where you are, and where you are going.

Words are powerful. If you don’t have positive things to say about yourself, don’t say anything. If you want to to build a great future for yourself, start listening to your words. Because what you are telling yourself is creating your future. So if you don’t want a negative future, start telling yourself positive things today.

You are responsible for your words. Don’t be afraid to tell yourself positive things. Stop telling yourself negative things. Negative words can never produce positive results. Only positive words can give birth to positive things.

When it comes to your words, know this: “You are guilty of all the good things you didn’t tell yourself.”

You can use your words to take charge of your life by using positive words to describe yourself, your work, and your life.

Negative words can stop you from achieving your goals in your life. If you don’t stop using negative words to describe yourself, your life, and your work, you are going to stay where you are. You can change it by using positive words to celebrate your life.

Don’t worry about your past errors. It is okay to make mistakes. It is okay to fail. But do not let them define you. Do not let them define your future. You cannot change the past, but you can change now. All you need to do is to change how you describe yourself. You cannot change your life if you don’t change how you describe yourself, your life, and your work.

With positive words, you can create a new soul.

If you want to move forward in your life, you must stop using negative words to describe your life, your work, and your relationships with other people.

When you use negative words to describe yourself, your work, your relationships (with yourself and other people), your life, you are limiting your future. Remember that change starts with you. So if you want to change your life, change how you describe yourself. When you do that, you will not only feel better about your life, you will become the person you were created to be. The question is: “Are you ready to change how you describe your life? If you are ready, let us do it!