Tag: Negative thoughts

Allowing Yourself To Let Go Of What Is Making You Unhappy

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To let in, you must first let out. If you want to live well, if you want to be happier, letting go is the way. To invite happiness into your life, you must let go of negative thoughts. To invite more love into your life, you must think love thoughts. To connect with yourself, you must let go of anger, hate, greed, jealousy, lust, fear, and unpleasant feelings.

Letting go heals. It transforms your life. It frees you. You let go of negative things because you want to free yourself. In order to really connect with your soul, you must practice the art of letting go. Sometimes you want to let go, but your ego says ‘don’t do it.’ Remember that you cannot live a better life without first destroying your ego. If you want to move forward in your life, you must destroy your ego. You must destroy your enemy: EGO. Detach from your ego and you will be free. In his book Joy on Demand: The Art of Discovering the Happiness Within, Chade-Meng Tan writes, “A person suffering from greed, hatred, anxiety, fear, lust, or other afflictive mental state is like she is holding a peace of burning hot coal in her hand. The solution? Just open the hand and let go of the hot coal.” Is it going to be easy, no. But you can do it.

How To Become A Possibilitarian

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Become a possibilitarian. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities- always see them, for they’re always there.”- Norman Vincent Peale

Do not limit yourself. There is nothing you cannot do if you just work harder than other people. Everything is possible. But you have got to do the work. Don’t let people tell you how to live your life. There are lots of them out there. They never “raise their sights to see possibilities.”

Success is for all of us. If you work hard on yourself, there is nothing you cannot achieve in your life. In order to achieve greatness in your life, you must think great thoughts. Your thoughts are who you are. If you think negative thoughts, you will attract negative things into your life. Remember that no one is going to give you an award for thinking negative thoughts.

No matter what you are going through right now, you can change it. You can change your life by changing how you see yourself. You can change your life by raising your sights to see possibilities. They are always there waiting for you. The question is: Are you ready to embrace possibilities?