Tag: Movement

Love Yourself The Way You Want To Be Loved

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘The ultimate expression of love is loving another in the way they want to be loved.’- Gary John Bishop

Is life without love even possible? Living a life without love is like driving a car without gas. That is not possible. It is not possible because love is energy. Love is life.

Where there is no love, there can be no life, no movement, and no growth. Love is important. It is the reason we are here. And if you want to give it to other people, you must first give it to yourself. You must first love yourself the way you want to be loved.

Do not be scared. It is not a bad thing to love yourself first. If you think it is bad to love yourself first, then think about this question: ‘Can you give out what you do not have?’ Is it possible?

If you are true to yourself, the answer is no. And that is why you shouldn’t wait for others to love you. If you have the courage to love yourself the way you want to be loved, I think that is good enough. According to Gary John Bishop, ‘When someone say they don’t love you, it doesn’t have anything to do with you.’ It has everything to do with them. Why? Because you can’t give out what you do not have.

If You Are Not Doing This, You Are Doing That

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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If you want to maximize your potential, 
if you want to increase your growth,
you must focus on what you are really good at,
not on what you are not good at.
Why is that? Because growth comes from doing 
your best work. Because you can't do more than 
your strength. 

If you are not here, you are there. 
If you are not doing this, you are doing that.
If you are not failing, you are passing.
If you are not failing, you are not doing enough.
You are playing it too safe. 
Reid Hoffman says, ''If you're not moving forward,
you're moving backward.''

And do not forget that you can't be good at everything.
But you can be good at something.
Whatever you are good at, do it really well. 
When you do, success will come to you.