Transformation takes time. It is not going to happen overnight. If you really want to do it, you must be patient with yourself. And it must be your decision to transform yourself, to transform your life. It is simple, but hard. But with commitment, you can do it.
Do worry about how long it is going to take to transform your life. All you need to do is focus on the process. When it comes to change, process matters. If you want to change yourself, you must focus on the process. You must become process-oriented. And if you have the courage to focus on what you are doing, if you have the courage to focus on the process, you will reach your destiny.
When you change yourself, you change your future. When you get rid of what is holding you back, you are growing yourself. You are giving yourself a new look, a new life, a new body. When you transform yourself, you are investing in your future. Remember, you are not going to grow if you are not willing and ready to endure the pain that comes with change.
Change is not easy, but you can’t avoid it. Do not avoid any opportunity to change yourself. Wherever you find one, take it. Always look for opportunities to change yourself, to learn new things, to do what you haven’t done before, to talk to new people. Do not avoid it. If you avoid an opportunity to add value to yourself, you will never reach your destiny. It is not easy, but you can do it for yourself. And the right time to do it is now.
Are you treating yourself with love? Are you treating yourself with respect? If you don’t have the courage to treat yourself with love, then why are expecting it from other people? Why are you waiting for others to treat you with love? If you wait, you are waiting for nothing.
“Do not let anyone tell you how to live your life.”
Why is that? Because no one is going to love you more than you love yourself. No one is going to do for you what you can do for yourself. Do not wait. It is your life. If you want to live it, if you want to enjoy it, you must design it yourself. Do not let anyone tell you how to design your life. Do not let anyone tell you where you should go, or where you shouldn’t go.
There is nothing you cannot do if you are committed to doing it. There is no life you cannot live if you are committed to living it. But it all starts with you. Because if you have the courage to change yourself, everything in your life will change. But if you do not have the courage to change yourself, your life is not going to change.
You are strong. You are smart. There is nothing you cannot do. You are capable of doing great things. You can change your life when you let go of the need to impress everyone around you. Do not even try to make everyone around you happy. It won’t work. But you can make yourself happy.
You cannot make everyone around you happy, but you can make yourself happy. Yes, you can make yourself happy. It starts with self-love. It starts with treating yourself with love. Will you do it?