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Don’t Live Someone Else’s Life. Live Your Own Life

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“Don’t live someone else’s life, incubate your own style.”- Myra Yadav

Happiness comes from living your own life. Happy people live with themselves. You cannot find happiness if you don’t know how to live with yourself.

Your problems are not where you are; they are in your thoughts. They are in your mind. They are not in your vacation home or homes; they are in your mind. The best way to manage your problem is to face it. Don’t let fear stop you from solving your problems.

If you don’t change how you think about your problems, they will always disrupt your happiness. They will always disrupt your life. So learn how to solve your problems before they start to hunt you. If you don’t solve your problems, if you don’t listen to your problems, they will go with you to your vacation in Mexico or Florida. I don’t know where you have one.

Your problems are in your inner palace. To clean up your inner house, you must clean up your mind. To solve your problems, you must learn to look within you, not without you. If you do that, you can solve them.

If You Want To Be Happy, You Must Learn To Value Yourself

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“Learn to value yourself, which means: to fight for your happiness.- Ayn Rand, writer

“Happiness can exist only in acceptance.”- George Orwell

If you want to live a happy life, you must accept who you are. You must accept your failures, your mistakes, your strengths and weaknesses. Learn how to be happy and comfortable with yourself. You are unique. You are special.

You are who you are. Nobody can change you. You can change yourself by changing your mind. If you want to change yourself, start by changing how you think and what you consistently think about yourself. The rest will follow.

Once you allow your mind to accept who you are, there is nothing anyone can do to change you, or to make you unhappy. Nobody can make you unhappy. Only you can make yourself unhappy. You do that by trying to live other people’s lives. If you try to be who you are not, you are painfully living someone else’s life. How painful is that? Very painful!

Live your life. Accept yourself. “Nobody is better than you.” Say it to yourself every day. Thank you for saying it!