You cannot be somebody else. You can only be yourself. Remember that you are not going to be able to get what you want if you do not feel good about yourself. How you see yourself, how you feel about yourself will determine your success. How you feel about yourself will determine your future. Because if you do not like yourself, if you do not feel good about yourself, you will never talk about your future.
Look, no matter how you feel about yourself, if you want to move forward, you must give yourself love. You must believe in yourself. You must believe in your life. And do not forget that self-love is an inside business. Love is an internal business. It is not an external business. When you are good on the inside, outside business will take care of itself. If you do not have love, then you cannot give love to anyone. Because to love others, you must first love yourself.
No matter what, do not fill your mind with negative things. Instead of comparing yourself to others, why not use your time to give yourself more love? You are not ugly. You are beautiful. Do not change yourself because people want you to chnage. When it is time to change, change yourself. And you are the only one who can change you, anyway. No one can change you. Even if things are not going your way, be patient. Be patient. Do worry about it. All you need to do is to connect with yourself. Do not doubt yourself. Why is that? Because doubt it a dream killer. Doubt kills dreams.
If you want to create a better future for yourself, you must change how you see yourself. If you want to make more money, you must believe in yourself. If you want to make yourself happy, you must treat yourself with kindness. Will you do it for you?
We can make ourselves happy. But it comes with a price. Are you ready to pay the price? If you are ready to do it, here is how:
Do not ignore the ordinary things. According to Walter Dudley Cavert, “Happy you are if you have eyes to see the ordinary things that should give you joy!” Finding happiness is about focus. You get what you focus on. You attract what you focus on. You bring into your life what you focus on. So to bring good things into your life, you must focus your eyes on the ordinary things.
Do not be afraid to do what you love. Success, happiness comes from doing what you love to do. When you do what you love, it brings happiness into your life. It motivates you to do more, to achieve more, to face your fears, to respond to those who don’t believe in you. In the words of Joseph Murphy, “Find out what you love to do,then do it.”
You should never stop improving yourself. We are happy when we are growing, not when we are dying, not when we are wasting our lives. If you want to get better at what you do, if you want to make yourself happier, if you want to change your world, you must improve yourself. Christian D. Larson said, “… you must improve yourself before you can better your life.” Remember that learning is never enough. The more you learn, the more you know. So if you want to better yourself, your life, you should never stop learning.
Happiness is not about where you are today. Happiness is about how you live your life today. Happiness is about self-control. It is about self-discipline. Do not mess up your life. Do not focus on the negative side of life. Focus on what makes you happy. Be kind to yourself. Be kind to people. Enjoy the things you have. Stop focusing on what you do not have. No matter what is going on in your life right now, always look for the blessings. It is there. And when you focus on positive things, you will have more positive things to enjoy. Why not do that for yourself?