Success is not about what other people are doing. It is not about what other people have. It is not about how other people live their lives. Success is about you. It is about how you see yourself, how you treat yourself, and how you take care of your life.
If you want to be successful, don't compare yourself to others. Because that is what we always do. And we will never stop doing it.
Don't compare yourself to others. There are many opportunites out there. Instead of comparing yourself to others, why not go out there and create your own success?
Here are four simple ways you can do that: Before we start, remember that success is personal.Accept who you are. It sounds simple, but it is difficult for most people to do. According to Mike Iamele, 'When we accept who we are, our whole selves, our complete selves, we learn how to tap into our inherent strengths.'' Real success starts with self-discovery. If you do not know yourself, you won't be able to help yourself. Yes, it is hard. But no matter what, if you want to be successful, you must accept yourself.
Face your fears. Fear is real. But do not give in to it. Do not let it prevent you from living your life, your true life. Whatever it is that you have been postponing, now is the right time to go do it. Do not move away from your dreams. If you want to create a lasting success for yourself, you must move past your fear. To do that, according to Mike, 'is to see where they came from...'' And if you do not deal with it, if you do not cultivate the courage to manage it, you are not going to achieve your success. To quote Mike Iamele, 'If you do not face your fears, you'll never know what you can actually do.'' To achieve success, you must move past your fears.Find what you are good at and do it. We do well at different things. Whatever you are good at, that is where your strengths are. And if you want to create your own success, you must follow your own path. You must do what you are good at, meaning what you can do really well- effortlessly. According to Payal Kadakia, 'Everyone must come to their own realization in their own way and follow their own path. We can't follow someone else's blueprint. Our answer lies within us.'' If you want to be successful, you must follow your own path.
Do what makes you happy. Happiness lies within us. So how do we reconnect with it? In the words of Jenna Kutcher, 'If you need a place to start weaving a little more joy into your life, pay attention to your curiosities: the things you Google, the forums you could read for hours, the thoughts that nag you, the YouTube videos you watch, the vision you hold for a someday version of you. The things you are curious about or are aching to do are not random, they just might signal an area where you can try, play, experiment, and expand.''
Let us start here. 'Just know, speaking as someone who has been through it all- no matter how dark it gets, you will get through this night.''- Daniel Howell
No matter what you are going through right now in your life, do not give up. You are almost there!
'If you're struggling, you need to know how to pick yourself up. If you're thriving, you need to understand why.'
'You may be a product of what made you, but you have the power to change and grow and make yourself feel better.'
'Just because you think something, doesn't mean it's real.'
'Breakdowns can be breakthroughs.' Whatever you are going through, focus on the lessons, not the pains.
'You feel what you do. You control what you do. You can have some control over how you feel. Do not give in to your emotions. If you want to master your life, you must first master your emotions.
'A good way to review your relationships is to look at your circle and consider who lifts you up and who pulls you down.' If you want to be successful in your life, you need to be around people are for you, not against you.
'If we want to change a stranger into a life partner, it's not just about time spent together- it's about trust. For trust to form in a relationship, there needs to be mutual vulnerability.''
'Having the bravery and honesty to admit what is wrong and ask for help is strength.'
'Sharing how you honestly feel with a person can be the most helpful way to lift yourself out of a situation you may feel stuck in.' Do not stuck yourself. Because you have the poeer to unstuck yourself.
'We tend to keep shame a secret. This is self-destructive and shame thrives on secrecy and only gives it more power over us.'
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