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Change Takes Time

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Why do you want to change your life? Do you have what it takes to change your life? You can change your life if you believe you can. But you have got to be patient with yourself. Change takes courage. It takes time. You can do it if you believe you can.

Assess yourself. Make sure you check yourself for your strengths and weaknesses. Make sure you are ready to make the change that you want to make. Don’t change anything when you are not ready. Don’t change because people ask you to change. You change your life when you are ready. It is never too late to change what you don’t like in your life. It is never too late to modify what is not working well for you. It is never too late to maintain what is working for you.

Keep and maintain what is working for you. People try to change when they are not ready. If you are not ready and you jump into changing your life, for sure, you will mess up. Change takes time. Change is difficult. Change is inevitable. We are changing every day. But before you change, make sure you are changing for the right reasons. And if you are changing for the right reasons, be patient. Change is not going to happen overnight.

Ask yourself: “Do I have what it takes to achieve my goals?

Changing your life is important. Whether you like it or not, you are changing every day, and you will continue to change. If you are not changing, you are dying. If you are not adding value to your life, you are not helping your life. If you are not moving, you are staggering. If you don’t have a plan, you are wandering. If you don’t know where you are going, you are confused.

Believe you can change your life. According to Norman Vincent Peale, “You can if you think you can.” Do you really believe in yourself? If not, why?

How To Make Fear Work For You

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“… The enemy is just as frightened as you are, and probably more so. They are not superman.”- George S. Patton

That is exactly how you should treat your fears. They are not superman. It is okay to fear something, but don’t be paralyzed by it. Don’t ignore your future because of fear. Don’t let go of opportunities because of fear. You must find a way to work with your fear. You can’t cure your fear, but you can work with it.

Stay positive. Believe in yourself. Believe that fear cannot stop you from reaching your goals. We all fear something. But you can put an end to it. You can change how you see your fear. Don’t feed your fear, starve it. When you look at your fear differently, the size of your fear will change. You must do that if you are to enjoy your journey to the other side of life. The better side.

To get to the better side of life, you must first conquer your fear. You must look fear in the eye. You must find a way to walk past it. You must take action. Action cures fear. If you want to take advantage of fear, take action.

You can also conquer your fear with love and compassion. Fear cannot stand love. Love is calm, strong, and productive. Love is healthier, wealthier, and nicer than fear. The root of love is untouchable. So if you want to really deal with your fear, practice the art of love. Share love, not fear. Love will put you in the right direction. Fear, on the other hand, will put you in the direction of anxiety. No matter what, love always wins.

If you don’t handle fear, it will handle you. To prevent that, you must work with it. You must conquer it. Don’t let it stop you from pursuing your goal. Don’t talk yourself out of your goal. We do that when we are scared of facing our fears. If you can deal with your fear today, tomorrow is yours.