Why is it important to be our real selves? Why can’t we just keep ‘faking it till we make it?’
Great questions! It is impossible to live a great life without first knowing who you are, what is important to you, and what makes you happy. If you don’t know your true self, then you are not living your own life. You are faking it till you make it. When will you come out of your closet?
The only life you have is YOURS, not mine. Euripides said, “There is just one life for each of us: our own.” Until you start to live your own life, you are not really living your own life, you are living other people’s lives. Do you want to live like that? I hope not.
It is important to live your OWN life. When you live your own life, you will have the chance to focus on yourself- your skills, your talents, your relationships, your personal and professional development, your self- discovery. But if you focus on other people’s lives, you are not living your own life to the fullest. You are wasting your time on earth.
The only way to be your real self, your true self, is to be ORIGINAL. You cannot be yourself when you imitate people. Imitation is not real. It is a photocopy. To accomplish great things in life, you have to be yourself. If not, your self-esteem will suffer. Herman Melville said, “It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation.” It is better to fail being yourself than to succeed being another person. If you succeed being another person, you have not succeeded. But if you succeed being yourself, you have succeeded.
Be yourself, don’t imitate anyone, and you will succeed.
Failure is what you think it is. You cannot be successful without first embracing failure. You cannot be successful without understanding what failure really means.
The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is how they think about about failure.
What does failure mean to you?
Whether you like to fail or not, failure is a great master. It is part of who we are. Failure has something to teach you. Open your mind to receive the gift of failure. People fail not because they are not smart enough, but because they fail to embrace failure. They fail to accept failure as part of life.
“Failure is not the end of life, it is the beginning of life.”
If you want to be successful in life, don’t be afraid to fail. Embrace failure, learn from it, and make your next move. When you fall down, you are not a failure. When you fall down and you stayed there, then you are a failure. I hope you are not.
“Failure is not the issue, the issue is how you receive failure.”
When you fail, be happy. I know this is hard to take in, but it is true. No matter what, don’t let failure stop you from moving forward. Failure is not the issue, the issue is how you receive failure. You will fail at something. We have all failed at something, and we will continue to fail. That is failing forward.
Failure is not the end of life, it is the beginning of life. It gives you time to prepare and launch again. This time you are a different person pursuing the same goal. Don’t let failure stops you. It is a learning experience. Learn from it!