Why You Must Stay In Your Lane

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Are you in your lane? If you are not, it is never too late to start again.

What does it mean to stay in your own lane?

When you are in your own lane, you accept who you are. When you are in your own lane, you are you. You follow your heart. You don’t compare yourself to anyone. You don’t care about what other people are doing. The only thing that matters to you is your growth.

‘When you are in your lane, there is no traffic.’- Ava DuVernay

When you are in your own lane, you are not scared to do what you most need to do. When you are in your own lane, you are not scared of mistakes, of failures. You are comfortable with whatever you get. You are comfortable with yourself.

When you are in your own lane, you are being true to yourself. You don’t lie to yourself. And when you are in your own lane, you don’t settle for less. You know what you can do. You know what you cannot do. Above all, when you are in your lane, when you are doing your own thing, when you are living your life, ‘there is no traffic.’

‘When you are in your lane, you are in charge of your life.’

So if you want to be successful in your life, do not be scared to follow your path. Do not be scared to start something, to be the first to do something. And do not be scared to represent yourself. Because if you don’t, other people will represent you. When they do, they are in charge of your life, not you. Do you want that to happen to you?

The Feeling Of Fear

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You are dealing with something 
that is not going to go away.
No matter what you think about it,
it is going to be there.

So, how are you going to manage it?
What are your plans?
What are your strategies?
Remember, as the old saying goes,
"If you are not planning, you are planning to fail."

Because you can't forget it.
You can't live without it.
It is always there.

If you want to enjoy your life, 
if you want to make peace with yourself,
if you want to take risks, 
if you are tired of living the same life,
doing the same thing, you must make peace with your fears.

Because you can't remove them.
The best way to deal with them is to acknowledge them.
It is to know that they are  there.
But do not let them take charge of your life.

Your fears are there. They are watching you.
Whenever you plan to do something,
especially new things, they appear.

Whether they appear or not, if you want  what you want,
if you think you deserve a better life,
then do not let fear be the stone 
between you and your dreams.