If you want to make peace with yourself, you must not surround yourself with people who are making your life miserable. Life is to short to move around with people who do not even appreciate you for who you are, not for what you have.
When you appreciate people, they grow bigger. When someone you admire recognizes you, it makes you feel better about yourself.
Do not forget that no one can make you feel miserable about yourself. Why is that? Simple. Because you are the owner of your own life. If you are not in charge of your life, then who? You tell me!
To enjoy the life that God has given you, you must stop beating yourself up. You must stop reliving your past. You must love who you are, regardless of what is in your bank account. Do not let worldly possessions posses your life. Live your life in a way that will attract people who can help you.
Control your life. Because you are in charge of your train. You can drive yourself to wherever you want to go. But to arrive there, you must have the courage to start your engine. You must have the courage to take the first step. Because without the first step, you won't be able to take the second step. And if you can't continue to move, then you can't continue to grow.
And to grow, you must move. You must not be afraid of failure. You must welcome failure into your world. And when you do, you will never be afraid of failure in your life.
Make failure your friend. Do not let people scare you to death. Take your own actions. Because without actions, intentional actions, your dreams are just dreams. They will never happen. Because for something to happen, there must be actions. Will you take your own actions to change your life, to change your world?
"Sometimes when you face challenges, it's not because you're doing something wrong but because you're doing something right."- Joel Osteen
You are not doing anything wrong. You are learning. You are growing. You are moving.
You can't do everything right in your life. But make sure you are doing something right. Do not worry about what you are going through. It is part of your life. It is part of your journey. And you must do it for yourself if you want to be free, if you want success, if you want to become something bigger than you are now.
It does not matter what you do. You will always face challenges.
When you face challenges, it means you are getting closer to achieving your dreams. It means you are getting closer to where you want to be.
And no matter how hard it may be, do not give in to challlenges.
They will go away. But they are not going to magically go away.
If you want your problems to go away, you must confront them. If you do not confront your problems, if you do not have the courage to face your problems, if you do not solve your problems, they only get bigger, not smaller. And they will affect your future life.