Category: Health & Well-Being

How To Attract Things That Bring Us Happiness

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality, Success
Photo by Zen Chung

As James Allen once said, “A man can attract that to him which is in harmony with his nature.” We are what we attract. We don’t attract anything that is not in harmony with our thoughts. If you want to feel good about something, or you are praying for something, fill your mind with the right thoughts. You get what you think about. If you think about negative things, you will attract negative things into your life.

You can control your thoughts. If you don’t like what you are thinking about, you can always change it. According to James Allen, ” You are the thinker of your thoughts, and as such you are the maker of self and condition.” Yes, we are the thinkers of our thoughts. We are the makers of our lives. If you don’t like your thoughts, change them. You are always going to be attracting that which you think about all the time.

If you want to change anything in your life, you must first work on your thoughts. You may change your home address, you may change your school, you may change your friends, you may change your car, but wherever you go, you will attract the same thing into your life. It is not about your situation, it is not about your condition, it is not about your circumstances; it is about your thoughts. If you want to get different results, change your thoughts. If you want your circumstances to change, you must change your thoughts. Until you change your thoughts, your life will never change.

You Get What You Plant

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality, Success
Photo by Zen Chung

Charles Reade once said, “Sow an act and you reap a habit. Sow a habit and you reap a character. Sow a character and you reap a destiny.” You can do whatever you set out to do in your life. But it begins with a single seed. You must plant your own seed in the ground. Do not just plant any seed, plant your own seed. If you plant love. you will reap love. If you plant happiness, you will reap happiness. If you plant hate, you will reap hate. Remember that we are what we plant. If you don’t like something, don’t plant it, don’t nurture it.

Do what you feel good about doing. Do what feels really good in your heart. Follow it with all your might. Don’t waste your time on doing things that are not nurturing your life. Don’t waste your time on people who don’t appreciate what you bring to the table. If they don’t appreciate you, don’t worry yourself about it, there are others who will never let you down. Don’t nurture a terrible relationship. It is not good for you.

If you nurture a terrible relationship, you will get a terrible relationship. According to Zig Ziglar, “What you see in others, exists in you.” If you see love in others, don’t hold yourself back, embrace it. If you see life in others, don’t hold yourself back, enjoy it, live it. We are one. We live separately, but together. We are all connected. So connect yourself with love, with happiness, with forgiveness. Don’t be afraid to let go of what you don’t like in your life. When something doesn’t fit you anymore, let it go. Do not sow the seed of attachment. Because life is not about attachment, but about letting go. It is not easy to let go, to forget things, to live without them. But if you can let things go, you will really feel good about yourself, because it allows you to live your real life. So if you want to live a peaceful life, you must learn how to let things go.