How ‘To Master Your Leadership Presence’

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When a leader’s voice for self is stronger, her presence slides out of signature voice to driving voice. When a leader’s voice for others is stronger, his presence slides out of signature voice to supportive voice.’

‘Leadership presence is the aggregate of three things: assumptions (mind), communication strategies (skill), and energy (body).’

‘To mentally condition your signature voice, you need to continually update your assumption of what you bring to the table.’

Being clear on your value proposition– knowing your personal brand and vision for yourself as a leader- is a key component of mental confidence.’

Your perspective influences your presence. As you become more senior, you need to think at the level of the organization rather than restricting your view to a function or unit. By taking a strategic perspective, you can better align and coordinate other groups and functions.’

‘Your values can either bolster your presence or get in your way. Gain clarity on your hot buttons- know what matters most to you while acknowledging that others have different values.’

‘You cannot have leadership presence without hearing what others are saying.’

People reveal important information, motivations, and cues during any interaction, and you need to be listening at all moments, constantly reading the room.’

‘Emotion-based listening requires you to be objective, open and curious.’

Great questions keep the flow of the discussion going, show your interest in the other party’s agenda, and form a bridge between you and your audience.’

Framing your message provides your audience with the context to interpret your message. Frames focus people on the most important issues and make your message salient to others.’

Source:

Amy Jen Su & Muriel Maignan Wilkins (2013). Own The Room: Discover Your Signature Voice to Master Your Leadership Presence

How To Get To The Top On Your Own Terms

You can get to the top if you are willing to do the work. You must, according to Josh Altman, ‘constantly be creating your own opportunities.’

Whatever you are doing right now, do it well. Because it is the beginning of where you are going. Your future depends on what you are doing right now.

According to Lauren Maillian Bias, ‘It doesn’t matter why the door opens. If it opens, don’t hesitate to walk through it, but be prepared to work harder than expected. Expectations of you are always higher than they may outwardly seem.’

‘Learn to clearly communicate in a way that commands respect, but isn’t abrasive.’

Always be committed to the job at hand. Do it well and get noticed enough to move forward.’

Show that you can persevere with grace during difficult situations. Problems are a part of life, and we all encounter them, but how you handle them will be most memorable.’

When people show you their true colors, believe them. Don’t make excuses for other people’s negative behaviors.’

Treat everyone like a rock star.’

Know when to hold out for what’s most important to you.’

Always be the bigger person and rise above the nonsense. Remember: The actions of those who would tear you down are a reflection of them. Don’t let someone win by dragging you into his or her mud puddle.’

Own your voice, control your narrative, and be deliberate in your communication.’

You are your reputation, not your company or your title. It’s all about you– the impresssions you leave, the interests you pique, the conversations you start.’

Stay grounded and never lose sight of your moral compass.’

Seek to work with people with integrity. You can always find higher ground when you’re working with good people.’

Every time you’re faced with a major decision, ask yourself: ‘Is it worth it even if I fail?’ If the answer is ‘yes,’ go for it!’

Live life on your terms. Do what works best for your life as defined by you and no one else.’

Source:

Lauren Maillian Bias (2014). The Path Redefined: Getting to The Top on Your Own Terms