Tag: Control

You Can Cheer Yourself Up

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Things happen. We cannot control everything,
But we can control ourselves. 
We can choose our friends. 
We can choose our lives. 

If you want to live a great life,
You must choose yourself.
You must be your own cheerleader.

Be your own cheerleader.
Do not wait for people to cheer you up.
Because you can cheer yourself up.
But that does not mean you shouldn't 
Hang out with great people.
No, that is not what I am saying.

We need good people in our lives.
To meet them, we must be good to ourselves.
We must love ourselves.
We must be comfortable with ourselves.
We must give up the person we now are.

No matter what you are going through, 
just remember that you cannot control everything.
The only thing you can control is your thought.

If you can control your thought, you can control your life.
You can bring happiness into your life.
You can brighten your life.
You can brighten your day.
You can motivate yourself.
You can inspire yourself. 
And you can challenge yourself to move forward in your life.
Will you cheer yourself up?

You Cannot Run Away From Yourself

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What are you trying to do? Are you trying to run away from you, from yourself? It won’t work. Because wherever you go, you are there.

Niel Postman said “There is no escaping from ourselves.” Whether you are smart, whether you are not smart, whether you are poor, whether you are rich, whether you are educated, whether you are uneducated, whether you are tall, whether you are short, you are you for a reason. Do not try to run away from yourself.

It is time to make yourself happy, to be there for yourself, to do things for you. It is time. And it depends on you. It depends on what you want for yourself.

The only person who cannot run away from you is you. So why try? Forget about it. It only makes you miserable. Intead of trying to be who you are not, why not embrace yourself, why not love yourself, why not love your flaws, your mistakes, your disappointments? Why not?

Why not? Why not abandon those negative thoughts in your head? If you want peace, think peaceful thoughts. If you want healing, then think compassionate thoughts. If you want happiness, then think happy thoughts. Stay away from toxins. Toxic people. Toxic work. Toxic self. Stay away.

Stay away from toxins. But do not stay away from yourself. Because you need you to become the real you. Do not worry about what you cannot control. Do not worry about losing control. Do not worry about other people’s issues.

Be there for others. Be there for yourself. When you are faced with a problem, believe in yourself. Do not wait for anyone to fix your problem for you. If you fix it yourself, then you are on your way to where you want to be. And where is that?