Tag: Quality Time

Simplification Is Not About Letting Go. It Is About This

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Simplification is about what you want to achieve in your life. It is not about what you want to give away.

It is making things better. It is not about letting things go. It is about letting good things into your life. Yes, it can also be about letting bad things leave your life.

Yes, if you want to create room for growth, you have got to let some things leave your life.

You can simplify your life by being true to yourself. Because things are easier to manage when we are real to ourselves.

You can simplify your life by paying attention to what is not working for you. When you pay attention to what is not working, then you will know where to focus your resources.

Simplification is about making things better for yourself. It is letting go of bad friends, fake friends. It is about making room for growth in your life.

Simplification is about going back to what matters to you. When you are after what you love, when you are after what is important to you, you feel alive.

Before you go, remember this: ‘If you want to create a better life for yourself, you must simplify your life. If you want to get things done, more things done, spend more quality time with your loved ones, you have got to simplify your life.’

So what are you doing to simplify your life today?

The Meaning Of Being Lonely

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Loneliness is not you. You are not lonely. You are reconnecting with your yourself. You are becoming a better you.

You are reflecting on things that you could have done differently. You are redefining yourself.

You are not willing to go back to where you were yesterday. You are moving foward. You are cleaning up your dirty mind. You are simplifying your life.

You are healing your life. You are healing your wound. You are forgiving people who have done things to you.

Just because you are not with people, just because you are alone, it has nothing to do with how you are feeling right now. BUT

it has everything to do with what you want for YOU. It has everything to do with where you want to go. It has everything to do with your inner self, your best self. It has everything to do with your relationships with others.

When you are alone, you are not lonely. You are spending quality time with yourself. Being alone is not being lonely. It is being alive. It is being comfortable with yourself.

Be comfortable with yourself, no matter what is going on in your life. Because if you are not okay with yourself, you will find it hard to be okay with other people.