No One Can Make You Miserable

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If you want to make peace with yourself, you must not surround yourself with people who are making your life miserable. Life is to short to move around with people who do not even appreciate you for who you are, not for what you have. 
When you appreciate people, they grow bigger. When someone you admire recognizes you, it makes you feel better about yourself. 
Do not forget that no one can make you feel miserable about yourself. Why is that? Simple. Because you are the owner of your own life. If you are not in charge of your life, then who? You tell me!

To enjoy the life that God has given you, you must stop beating yourself up. You must stop reliving your past. You must love who you are, regardless of what is in your bank account. Do not let worldly possessions posses your life. Live your life in a way that will attract people who can help you. 

Control your life. Because you are in charge of your train. You can drive yourself to wherever you want to go. But to arrive there, you must have the courage to start your engine. You must have the courage to take the first step. Because without the first step, you won't be able to take the second step. And if you can't continue to move, then you can't continue to grow.

And to grow, you must move. You must not be afraid of failure. You must welcome failure into your world. And when you do, you will never be afraid of failure in your life.
Make failure your friend. Do not let people scare you to death. Take your own actions. Because without actions, intentional actions, your dreams are just dreams. They will never happen. Because for something to happen, there must be actions. Will you take your own actions to change your life, to change your world? 

Say Yes To Your Life

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You have been saying yes to others. When are you going to start saying yes to your own life? When are you going to start celebrating your life? When are you going to be there for you? When?

Start today. Start now.
When you say yes to your life, you are saying yes to everything around you. And you are saying no to those who are not for you. You are saying no to those who have been wasting your time. You are saying no to negative thoughts. And you are saying no to  bad habits. 

Life is too short to waste. Whatever it is that is making you happy, smile, do it. Say yes to it. 
Saying yes to your life means you are comfortable with yourself. It means you are living in harmony with your inner world. It means you love yourself, regardless of your imperfections. In the words of Jen Sincero, "When you say no to the needs of others, you're being nice to yourself, not mean to them."
Say yes to your needs, but do not ignore other people. 

Say yes to great things. Never stop saying yes to:
Love. Happiness. Compassion. Life. Growth. Empathy. Wisdom. Dreams.
And if you want to be successful, never stop saying no to:
Hate. Fear. Guilt. Restlessness. procrastination. Anxiety. Toxic people.
When you do, when you say yes to your life, your life will start to respect you.
The question is: "Will you say yes to your life right now?