What To Do When You Are Not Feeling Great About Your Life

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When things are not going well for you, what does it mean to you? What is the message? What are you doing that you are not supposed to be doing? What are you not doing that you are supposed to be doing? Why are things the way they are? What are you going to do about them? If you do not do something about them, they will do something about you. They will change your life forever.

So when things are not going well for you, the message is that you need to change what is not working for you. You need to start doing the right things. You need to stop wasting your time on useless things. When things are not going well for you, you need to change what you are doing. Do not change what is working for you, only what is not working. Because doing what is not working is a waste of your precious time. Remember, if you want to make yourself really happy, you must focus your heart on what is working for you. Do not limit yourself. Do not focus on what is not working. Do not put any limits on your own life. And do not let bad feelings ruin your life.

Whenever you are not happy with your life, you have got to change your focus from what you do not have to what you have. Be grateful for what you have, not what you do not have. You have a lot of things in your life to be grateful for. Whenever you feel sad about something in your life, just think about what is working for you. Because when you are grateful for what you have, you will have more things to be grateful for. With gratitude, you can attain anything in your life.

Whether good or bad, whether you are doing well or not, whether you are living in a big mansion or not, whether you have a college degree or not, you can do whatever you set your mind to. Remember, nothing can take the place of gratitude. It is the way.

Orison Swett Marden On How To Overcome Your Obstacles

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“Most of our obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk through them.”- Orison Swett Marden

Nothing is too much for you to defeat. If you want to reach your destination, you must first defeat your obstacles. You must walk through them. You can do it. But remember, your obstacles are not there to stop you from achieving your goals, they are there to bring out the best in you. You become a better you by overcoming your obstacles. You have no right to ignore your dreams because obstacles are in your way. No, you don’t. You must face it. And no matter what you are struggling with, no matter what you are trying to overcome, you should never give way to it. If you do, you will regret it. And do not limit yourself to your own environment. Because your environment is not responsible for your growth. You are responsible for making your life better. When you limit yourself to your environment, to your past failures, to your mistakes, to your past disappointments, your spirit is weakened. And when that happens, everything becomes difficult for you to achieve.

You can win your battles. All you need to do is to believe in yourself. Do not hang around people who will deflate yourself spiritual ball. Do not give way to doubt. Do not give way to hate. If you want to defeat your obstacles, if you want to walk through your problems, first, you must believe in yourself. Second, you must surround yourself with positive people, people who are not afraid to challenge you, people who are getting things done, people who are doers, people who are always improving their skills, not negative people. No matter what, do not settle for less. You can always do better than you are doing right now. You can always improve your skills. You can always work harder than other people. Remember, hard work and success go together. And procrastination and failure go together. You are better than your obstacles. If you want to overcome your obstacles, you must not give way to them. If you do, they will defeat you.