Creating A Perfect Life For Yourself

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You can do it. You can create your own life even though things are not going well. You can create a better version of yourself even though things are far from what you want to see in your life.

You can create a perfect world for yourself even though you are struggling with things that are bigger than you.

No matter what is going on in your life, no one has it all together. No one has it all. No life is a perfect life. People are dealing with their own things. Do not let what you see out there deceive you. Focus on what you are creating.

Focus on what you can do to change your life. Focus on how to make your life better than what you are experiencing right now.

You do that by choosing yourself, by living your life, by staying in your lane, and by knowing that things are not going to be perfect.

You are creating a perfect life for yourself when you are not afraid to tell yourself what you need to hear, when you are not afraid to choose you, to make things how you want to make them.

You are creating a perfect life for yourself when you choose to rise above what you are facing right now in your life, when you have the courage to say, ‘I am enough, no matter what.’

Are They Really Thinking About You?

‘The only person thinking about if other people are thinking about you is you?’- Lia Garvin

No, they are not. They are not thinking about you. They are not after you. They are not after what you are doing. They are not after where you are. They are not after your failures, your mistakes. They are not.

Get over it. Do not dominate your life with other people’s opinions of you. Do not focus on what people are saying about you. It is not going to help you. It is going to hold you back from actually taking care of your life.

Do not waste your energy. It takes a lot of energy to think about what others are thinking about you. What if they are not thinking about you? What if they are just doing their own things? What if….?

Live your life. Focus on what is on your plate. Focus on what you are doing. Do not focus on what is not even happening. If you think other people are thinking about you, you are the one.