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Do Something About It

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Where are you right now in your life? Wherever you are, embrace it. That is where you are supposed to be.

It is for you. Whatever is going on there, it is working for you, not against you.

Be there to live it, to experience it. Stop talking about what is not working. Because talk is just talk. It can’t change anything. Instead, it makes them worse.

So if you really want to make a difference in your life, you have to start taking actions.

You have got to start doing, not talking. You have got to start doing, not thinking.

If you do not like what is going on in your life, you have got to do something about it. Do not blame it on anybody.

If you are not happy with your work, you have got to change how you do your work.

Remember, if you do not change, nothing is going to change.

How Do You Talk To Yourself?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

When you talk to yourself, what do you say to yourself? Why is it important? Why is it important to your life? Why is it important to your growth? Why is it important to your career?

Because thoughts are powerful. They can tear us down. And they can lift us up. They can make us happy. And they can make us unhappy. That is why you should never use negative words to describe yourself. You cannot build a better life by tearing yourself down. You can’t build a happy life with negative words. You can’t build a better life with negative thoughts.

If you want to live a better life, you must talk to yourself like a better human being. Talk to yourself like someone you love, like someone you want to be with.

If you want to change your life, you must respect yourself. You must talk to yourself the way you talk to other people.

Because you can’t grow your life by pulling yourself down. You can’t move forward in your life by constantly telling yourself negative things. You can’t build a better life by tearing yourself down.

You are who you are. God created you the way you are for a reason. Do not criticize yourself. Instead of tearing yourself down, why not lift yourself up?

Instead of saying, ‘I am not good enough’, say, ‘I am good enough.’