Tag: confidence

How To Overcome Self-Doubt

Distressed woman sitting on lakeside and touching face in despair
Photo by RODNAE Production

When you focus on doubt, you will have more doubts. When you focus on faith, on love, on happiness, you will have more faith, happiness, and love.

Doubt is the beginning of all failures. If you want to succeed in life, you must NEVER doubt yourself. You must always believe in yourself, in your power to get things done. Just because you didn’t do well yesterday does not mean you are not going to do well in the future. You will do really well if you believe in yourself, if you have confidence in yourself, if you have the courage to do things differently, if you have the courage to face your fears, if you have the courage to try something new.

You cannot succeed while doubting yourself or thinking thoughts of failure.”- Orison Swett Marden

If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” No matter how tough,do not quit. Do not give up on yourself. Do not give up on your dreams. Because you are not going to succeed if you quit. The best way forward is to try something different. It is not to quit. When you quit, you are done pursuing your dream. But when you do something new, you still have a chance to make your dreams happen.

Take a chance. Do not let your past failures stop you from taking a chance. Do not let your past failures stop you from doing something new. Because you cannot live your life unless you stop doubting yourself. Do not doubt yourself. If you want to climb the ladder of success, you must believe in yourself. That is the only way.

Life Isn’t About Searching For Love. Life Is About This One Thing

Two Women Sitting on Ground Near Bonfire
Photo by Alexandr Podvalny

Love is about acceptance. If you don’t accept yourself. it simply means you don’t love yourself. And if you want to do great things in life, tie it to self-love. Because we cannot do anything productive with ourselves without self-love. It is the beginning of everything.

Self-love is self-acceptance. No matter what you are going through, no matter what people may have told you in the past, no matter what you are telling yourself, the best way forward is to love yourself. Learn to love yourself. Do not wait for other to love you. They are not going to do it for you. You are responsible for making yourself happy. You are responsible for giving yourself real love. So why not now?

Why not give yourself love now? Are you postponing your love? Remember that love is not something you postpone. It is something you give to yourself. It is something you practice every day. Love is not in the future. It is in the now, in the moment. If you are not loving yourself now, if you are not accepting yourself now, when are you going to have the courage, the confidence to practice self-love? When?

The answer is NOW! Because life is about giving ourselves love. It depends upon ourselves.