How To Learn From Failure

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Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. We all make mistakes. When you make a mistake, don’t beat yourself up for making it. Mistake is part of growth. Mistake is part of success. Mistake is part of life. Mistake is not a weakness; it is a strength. When you make yours, it means you are trying to make things happen. Do not let failure stop you from growing. Because if you don’t make enough mistakes, you won’t grow. Be bold. Don’t be afraid to learn about what you don’t know. Knowledge is never enough. Remember that we learn more from failure than from success. When you fail, try to learn everything that you possibly can about the situation. Ask yourself some critical questions. Ask yourself, what could I have done differently? Be honest with yourself when you are answering it. Do not hide anything from yourself. You want to live, to grow, right? If yes, hiding something important from yourself is not the right way to go. When you do that, you are pulling yourself backward. You are not pushing yourself forward. To grow, you need yourself. Don’t wait for people to come and push you. If you can, push yourself. If not, ask for help. And celebrate it when you get it. Be grateful. Say, “Thanks.”

When you make a mistake, do not hide it. Let your trusted friends know what happened. You can’t change what happened, but you can rewrite the story. You can recreate the situation. You can reinvent yourself. Don’t forget to ask yourself, “What can I take away from here?” Don’t attend any pity party. It won’t help you. It will hurt you even more. Just try to see it as a way to learn more about yourself. Make sure you really learn from your mistakes. Do not take it for granted. Because if you don’t learn from it, you will repeat it again. When you learn from your mistakes, it makes you stronger, not weaker. Be brave. Keep going. Learn from it. Make it a habit to always learn from your failures. If it doesn’t work, do it again.

How To Do What You Are Afraid To Do

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“He who has overcome his fears will truly be free.”- Aristotle

Fear is part of life. To live your life, to do what you are afraid to, to get out of your comfort zone, you must take action. To do what you want to do with yourself, you must use love to conquer fear. Only love can conquer fear. Use love to remove fear from your life. There is nothing that love cannot create. With love in your heart, you can do anything. Before you start anything, my friends, think love. Think love thoughts. Remove fear thoughts from your mind. When you think fear thoughts, you attract more fear thoughts into your life. When you think love thoughts, you attract love into your life. When you fear something, do not run away from it. Try to understand it. When you understand it, you won’t fear it. We fear what we don’t understand. We don’t fear what we know. That is why so many people hate change. Because change is vulnerable. It brings chaos. It destroys routine. It takes people out of their comfort zones. But you can live your life with love. Live love. Breathe love. Carry love in your heart. Don’t fear what you don’t know. Instead, learn more about it. There is power in learning. Always learn something new. Learning cures fear. Whatever you want in your life, you can get. Do not let fear be the obstacle to your success. Remove it with action. Action cures fear. Action builds confidence. Action brings freedom. Remember, only love can set you free. So if you want to free, carry love in your heart. With love, with action, you can overcome your fears. With love, with compassion, you can overcome your fears.