Always Evaluate Yourself In A Productive Way

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''If you aren't evaluating yourself in a productive way, the loses and 'failures' erode your self-confidence.''- Dr Jason Selk & Tom Bartow

When it comes to your growth, when it comes to your life,
do not lie to yourself. 
You can lie to other people but not to yourself.
If you can, do not lie to other people. Because if you do, it is coming back to hurt you.
It is better to be honest with yourself. It is also important that you always tell the truth.

Because the only thing that can take you to your next level in your life, in your career, 
is being honest with yourself. When you are honest with yourself, people will see it.

If you continue to lie to yourself, if you are not telling yourself the truth about your growth,
if you are not honest about what you can do, you will get into trouble.
To avoid that, you must be honest with the people around you. 
They can help you get what you want. But for that to happen, you must first help yourself
get what you want.

What do you want? You want to grow, right? Then how are you going to get there? By doing what 
you can do. By doing what you say you are going to do. By being the person you say you are. 
By standing up for what you believe in. And by evaluating yourself in a productive way.
If not, you are not going to grow. I hope you are telling yourself the truth. 
''Only the truth will set you free!''

Stop Recounting Your Problems

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"Do not dump your woes upon people- 
keep the sad story of your life to yourself. 
Troubles grow by recounting them."- Elbert Hubbard

If you want to succeed in your life, 
recounting your problems won't help you.
Focusing on what is missing won't help you.
Blaming others for your problems won't help you.

If you want to move forward, focus on what you can do.
Focus on what is working for you, not your failures.
When you do that, you will have the power to face 
what is ahead of you. 
You will have the power to face your problems, 
no matter what. And you can do it.