Tag: Blaming

Stop Recounting Your Problems

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"Do not dump your woes upon people- 
keep the sad story of your life to yourself. 
Troubles grow by recounting them."- Elbert Hubbard

If you want to succeed in your life, 
recounting your problems won't help you.
Focusing on what is missing won't help you.
Blaming others for your problems won't help you.

If you want to move forward, focus on what you can do.
Focus on what is working for you, not your failures.
When you do that, you will have the power to face 
what is ahead of you. 
You will have the power to face your problems, 
no matter what. And you can do it.

Hold Yourself Accountable

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If you really mean business, if you want to grow, if you want to change the direction of your own personal life, if you want to build a great life, a great business, a great career, you must do one thing: YOU MUST HOLD YOURSELF ACCOUNTABLE. 

And you must stop blaming other people for what is not working for you. If something is not working, ask questions, not blaming others. 

If you want to know what you do not know, ask questions. But if you do not want to know what you do not know, then start blaming other people. 

You can blame other people all you like. They are not your problem. They are not responsible for your problem. You are. 

So if you want to fix it, you must hold yourself accountable for your mess, for your mistakes, for your errors, for your thoughts, and for your actions. 
Until you have the courage to take responsibility for your life, nothing is going to change. 

If you want something to change, you must start the process. It is hard. It is not going to happen overnight. But if you can do it for yourself, things will start to change. Do not scared. It is life. It is your life. 
If you want it to get better, you can make it better. 
If you want to change your life, you can. But it comes with a price: ACCOUNTABILITY. 
It is the key to greatness. 

If you are not getting what you want, maybe you are not holding yourself accountable for what you do every day. If you are not moving closer to your dreams, if you are stuck, then you need to check what you do every day. Because if you want your tomorrow to change, you must start the process today. Will you?