"Do not dump your woes upon people- 
keep the sad story of your life to yourself. 
Troubles grow by recounting them."- Elbert Hubbard

If you want to succeed in your life, 
recounting your problems won't help you.
Focusing on what is missing won't help you.
Blaming others for your problems won't help you.

If you want to move forward, focus on what you can do.
Focus on what is working for you, not your failures.
When you do that, you will have the power to face 
what is ahead of you. 
You will have the power to face your problems, 
no matter what. And you can do it.