Tag: Success

How Patience Can Help You Face Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘There is no road too long to the man who advances deliberately and without undue haste; there are no honors too distant to the man who prepares himself for them with patience.’- Jean de La Bruyere

Be patient with yourself, no matter what is going on in your life. If you are not where you are supposed to be, be patient with yourself.

If you are not making enough money to live your life, with hard work, everything is going to be alright. Trust what God is doing in your life.

If you have not be treating yourself with love, you have got to stop doing that to yourself. You are on a journey. You are not racing with other people.

You are racing against yourself, your yesterday’s self. Beating yourself up is not going to add anything to your life. Instead, it is going to take a lot from you. For example, your peace, your happiness.

Do not do that to yourself. When things are hard, when things are not going well, just remember why you are here. God created you for a reason.

You are not here by accident. You are not here by mistakes. You are alive to make a difference, to change the world, to write your own history.

Isn’t that great?

That is why you shouldn’t give up, no matter what you are facing in your life right now. If you do not give up, you will win. But if you give up on yourself, on your dreams, everything is over. Life is gone. Dreams are gone.

Please don’t do that to your beautiful life. People are counting on you. People are praying for you to make it in your life.

It is going to be alright. You are not living by accident. You are living a life of purpose. Whatever it is that you want to do, don’t wait for the right time. Because the right time will never come to you.

Now is your right time. Be patient. Don’t rush the process. Because you can’t acquire patience overnight.

If you want to be successful in your life, you must be patient with yourself.

If you want to get to the other side, you must respect yourself. You must be patient with others. Because ‘patience can’t be acquired overnight.’

How To Get Other People To Trust You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Trust is everything. You can’t force other people to trust you. You can’t force your friends to trust you. You can’t force your spouse to trust you. You can’t force your coworkers to trust you. You can’t force your boss, your manager, to trust you.

You don’t demand trust from other people. You work for your trust. You earn it. Trust is what you get when you are true to yourself.

If you want people to trust you, don’t fight for your trust. Do not convince them to trust you. Be yourself.

Be yourself. Live your life. Do not lie to anyone. Do not even lie to yourself, even when no one is watching you.

Trust will come. People will trust you when you are a good person, you live with dignity, when you are true to yourself, when you love what you are doing, when you surround yourself with other trustworthy people.

And the best way to get people to trust you is to first trust yourself. If you do not trust yourself, no one is going to trust you.

You trust yourself when you do what you say you are going to do. People like that.

You trust yourself when you are not scared to tell people what they need to hear from you.

You trust yourself when your words and your actions are the same. They are not different.

You trust yourself when you do not take on things that you cannot do. You trust yourself when you know what you can do.

You trust yourself when you surround yourself with other trustworthy people. And you trust yourself when you live your life with integrity in every area of your life.

That is how you earn trust. Again, do not force people to trust you. Because trust is about your behavior.

It is about how you live your life. So if you want people to trust you, you must be true to yourself.

The question is, ‘Are you true to yourself?’