Becoming A Reality-Based Leader

Great leaders lead their people. They don’t run away when things are not going well.

They don’t blame their people. They do the opposite. They learn from problems.

Above all, a great leader faces his or her reality.

If you as a leader do not embrace reality and deal with it directly, those you lead will not know how to invest the precious resources of their time and energy.’

Leadership is about winning hearts and minds and consistently calling employees up to greatness by insisting on- and investing in- their growth and development.’

Leadership is working on the overall willingness, morale, and capacities of employees rather than micromanaging and becoming overinvolved in their daily activities.’

Reality-based laeders help people to change their mindsets, knowing that beliefs- not circumstances- are the greatest predictor of results.’

Reality-based leaders know that high expectations are a gift, and that it is not generous or loving to give someone that which they are capable of providing for themselves.’

‘Reality-based leaders make their expectations of the team very clear.’

Reality-based leaders assess a team’s results honestly.’

Lead the team through a thorough accounting of their individual contributions to the results.’

Reality-based leaders do not damage their credibility by perpetuating the ridiculous notion that employees should never bring forward a problem without also having a solution at hand.’

Reality-based leaders never entertain complaints about coworkers.’

When you’re in judgment, you are dealing with your story- not with reality.’

Source:

CY Wakeman (2010). Reality-Based Leadership: Ditch the Drama, Restore Sanity to the Workplace, & Turn Excuses Into Results

What You Must Stop Doing

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Life is tough enough. No one has it all together. But you can make your own life better for yourself.

If you are not passing, it means you are failing. Why is that? Maybe you are not where you are supposed to be. Are you where you are supposed to be?

Maybe you are not doing what you are supposed to be doing. Are you doing what you are supposed to be doing?

Maybe you are not doing the right things. Because only the right things can give you what you are looking for. Are you doing the right things?

Maybe you are hanging out with the wrong people. Maybe you are not being honest with yourself. Who are your friends? Are they the right ones for you?

Be honest with yourself. Do not deceive yourself. It is very easy to do, but hard to recover from.

It can redirect your life. It can change the direction of your life. That is why you should NEVER tell yourself false stories.

Because success is not about false stories. Success is about telling yourself what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.

Success is about knowing what you can do. It is also about knowing what you cannot do.

To move forward, to experience a different life, you must stop accepting your limitations. You must stop living in the past. You must stop justifying your false stories.

You must stop accepting a life that is not for you, that you are not happy with, that is taking you to where you do not want to go. And you MUST start living your life.