Tag: Self-improvement

Stop Proving Yourself To People Who Will Never Love You

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If you want your life to make sense to you, you must stop proving yourself to people who will never love you. You are not here on earth to prove yourself to anyone, but yourself. You must learn to be comfortable with yourself. If you are comfortable with yourself, then you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone.

You have nothing to show to anyone. You are who you are. You are not comparing your accomplishments to the accomplishments of other people. You are comfortable with yourself. Don’t look down on yourself. You are good enough. You are a unique human being. You should celebrate your uniqueness, not abuse it.

If you are around people who don’t know your worth, you don’t have to prove yourself to them. Let them know who you are, what you stand for, and what matters to you. Don’t worry about them. Worry about you and where you are going. That is good enough.

They don’t have to like what you are doing. But if you like what you are doing, that is what matters. Learn to be comfortable with people who don’t know you. If you are comfortable with them, judgement will disappear. Whether they know you or not, you have nothing to prove to anyone. Do you?

Why It Is Better To Spend Your Time With Yourself

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When you spend your quality time with yourself, you are reconnecting with your true self. You are letting go of the past that have been holding you back. You are renewing your love with your true self. It is better to spend your time with your inner self than to spend it with heart breakers. It is better to be alone than to be with a person who does not value you.

“Spending your time with yourself is better than spending it with heart breakers.”

“You can’t force anyone to love or want you.” BUT, according to John Amodeo, “There is less to lose when you have yourself.” It is your right to have yourself. So don’t spend your life with people who are not lifting you up. If you spend time with quality people, your life will improve significantly. But if you spend your life with someone who does not respect you, your life will never improve. To stop that from happening to you, spend your time with yourself. Don’t be afraid to be alone.

“Don’t be afraid to be alone.”