Don’t Fake It Until You Make It

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It is easier to be your real self that to fake it until you make it.
When you fake it, you are not being honest with yourself.
That is not where you want be.

Do not let anyone pressure you into the world of faking it until you make it.
Remember, faking it until you make it is a scam. 
Yes, it is a scam. It is not real. You are hiding something.
You are not telling people the truth about you, about yourself.

Look, if you want to grow, if you want to be successful, believe it or not,
it is better to present your real self, to tell the people around you who you really are.
If you can do that, people will always follow you. 
And you will always be comfortable with yourself.

Peace Is Not The Absense Of Problems

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A life without peace is not 
the best way to live.
Peace is not the absence of chaos.
Peace is the ability to live with chaos.

Peace is how we manage our problems.
Because we cannot live without problems.
Peace is not the absence of fear. 
Peace is how we deal with our fears.

If we really want to enjoy our lives,
It is very important to make peace 
With ouselves. Because if we are not
At peace with ourselves, we are not
going to do well in our lives.

The reason why some of us are not 
At peace with themselves, with their lives,
Is that they don't believe in themselves.
They do not believe in what they can do.
They believe other people are better than them.
They are always trying to make other people happy.
They are people pleasers. They live for other people.
They believe in others, not in themselves.
They do not like what they see in the morning
When they wake up. Always against themselves.
They are not comfortable with who they are.

How can you live a peaceful life when you are 
Always against yourself, when you are always against your life?
It is not possible. And it will never be possible.

You have a way forward. You have a path forward.
To go forward, to take a step toward your dreams,
Remember that you are who you are for a reason.
Do not forget that it is better to be you than to
Be somebody else, than to be your fake self.
No matter what, do not try to copy other people.
It is ALWAYS better to be you. And always will be.