‘When Leaders Truly Listen’

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‘In a speak-up culture, people feel it is both safe and worth it to share ideas, concerns, disagreements, and mistakes.’

‘When people feel cared for, they are more likely to extend that care to others.’

Vulnerability doesn’t mean sharing everything- that could simply be oversharing. Vulnerability does mean sharing what is relevant, which includes admitting when you don’t yet know an answer or need help.’

‘If we want to cultivate a speak-up culture, we must embody the Platinum Rule: treat people as they wish to be treated.’

Any journey worth going on is made better when it’s shared.’-

Stephen Shedletzky

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‘A toxic relationship, with a leader, or with anyone, is one in which the more you invest in that relationship, the worse it seemingly gets.’

‘Leaders go first- they listen first, extend trust first, and courageously venture into the unknown first.’

‘Great leaders are obsessed with building deeper relationships with their own attributes and skills, the people around them, and the world at large.’

‘Leadership is about owning our impact on others, even if that impact was unintended.’

‘No matter how great we are at leading, the time test of our leadership is in our ability to help others become great leaders, who then help others become great leaders.’

Our job as a leader is to teach, guide, mentor, coach, and support, not to tell people how we did it and make them do it our way.’

Source:

Stephen Shedletzky (2023). Speak-Up Culture: When Leaders Truly Listen, People Step Up

What Respectful People Do Every Day

People respect people who respect others. If you want people to respect you, to follow you, you must ‘be the first to respect’ them.

‘Don’t wait to be treated with respect before being respectful.’

They ‘make an effort to be worthy of their respect.’

They ‘look for, and acknowledge ‘diamonds in the rough,’ those things in others that are worthy of respect.’

‘Don’t try to stop disrespect with more disrespect.’

Don’t tolerate disrespectful behavior, no matter how inconsequential it may seem.’

‘Don’t minimize the power of respect.’

‘Don’t stop practicing respectful leadership.’

‘The Respectful Leader makes a full apology for disrespect.’

‘Respectful Leaders consistently look for, find, and acknowledge those qualities, skills, and perspectives in others that are worthy of respect.’

‘Respectful Leaders do their utmost to get their emotional shift together, stay positive, and never take out their frustrations and anger on others.’

Don’t be distracted.’

Source:

Gregg Ward (2016). The Respectful Leader: Seven Ways to Influence Without Intimidation