What Respectful People Do Every Day

People respect people who respect others. If you want people to respect you, to follow you, you must ‘be the first to respect’ them.

‘Don’t wait to be treated with respect before being respectful.’

They ‘make an effort to be worthy of their respect.’

They ‘look for, and acknowledge ‘diamonds in the rough,’ those things in others that are worthy of respect.’

‘Don’t try to stop disrespect with more disrespect.’

Don’t tolerate disrespectful behavior, no matter how inconsequential it may seem.’

‘Don’t minimize the power of respect.’

‘Don’t stop practicing respectful leadership.’

‘The Respectful Leader makes a full apology for disrespect.’

‘Respectful Leaders consistently look for, find, and acknowledge those qualities, skills, and perspectives in others that are worthy of respect.’

‘Respectful Leaders do their utmost to get their emotional shift together, stay positive, and never take out their frustrations and anger on others.’

Don’t be distracted.’

Source:

Gregg Ward (2016). The Respectful Leader: Seven Ways to Influence Without Intimidation

The Benefits Of Defining Yourself

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You are the only person who can define you. Do not allow people to define you. If you allow that to happen, they will give you the wrong picture of yourself.

One of the opportunities of your life is to be able to define your real self. Tell people who you are. Do not allow people to tell you who you are. They will tell you the wrong things about yourself.

Joseph Campbell said, “The privilege of a life time is being who you are.” You cannot know who you really are, if you do not define yourself in your own terms.

Sometimes we allow others to define us because we want them to like us. But we are not really helping ourselves by doing that. The great Aristotle said, “Know thyself.” If you want to live a positive, happier, healthier, and a successful life, you MUST know yourself.

You will never know yourself if you allow people who do not even know you to define you. They do not know you. They do not know what you stand for. They do not know where you are going. They know nothing about you. Because of that, do not let their opinions affect you. Their opinions have nothing to do with you. Just focus on what is important to you and the people around you.

Define yourself.

Are you ready to define yourself?