Tag: perfection

Breaking Free From People-Pleasing Mentality

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We please people to make them happy, to fit in, or to cover our insecurities. You must stop it. Love yourself the way you are. You are good enough. Don’t crave for love, give yourself love. Because you can’t make people like you. If they don’t like you, there is nothing you can do about it. Forget about their love. Your love for yourself is enough to make you happy for the rest of your life.

No one is perfect. No one is better than you.And you are not better than anyone. That is good enough. Don’t give up your values because you want people to like you. Don’t do it. According to Ryan Holiday, “We can seek progress without being perfectionists and we can be pragmatic without being unprincipled.” In other words, don’t give up your values just because you want to make people happy.

The more you please people, the more you harm yourself. You will never be happy with yourself. To stop people from manipulating you, you must believe in yourself. You must never be afraid to say NO to them. If you want to live your best life, you MUST be in charge of your life. The choice is yours.

I am breaking free from my people-pleasing mentality

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“If you want to live your best life, you must be in charge of your life.”

Life Is Worth Living

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“Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact.”- William James

Yes, your life is worth living. If you are not living your life to the fullest, it means you are judging yourself wrongly. You are paying attention to the wrong things. It means you are feeding your mind with the wrong things.

You can live your life the way you want it. But it won’t happen if you don’t discipline yourself. You must discipline yourself to see the beauty around you. Because you can’t see what you are not looking for.

Life is worth living if you believe it. Life is not perfect, but you can make yours perfect. You can do that by believing in yourself. If you don’t believe in your life, no one will.

Your life starts with you. It is yours. To live it, you must take charge of your life. Are you ready to take charge of your life?