How To Turn Negative Messages Around

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It starts with your own mindset. If you believe you can do great things, you can do them. Do not doubt yourself. Because self-doubt is the beginning of failure.

In his book Making Hope Happen: Create the Future You Want for Yourself and Others, Shane J. Lopez writes, ‘… mindset influences every aspect of your life, from work to sports, from relationships to parenting. If you believe you can change and develop, you know you can move beyond your present limitations.’

To ‘move beyond your present limitations’, you must change your thoughts.

You can do great things. Do not doubt yourself. Negative messages are not good for you. They are not good for your life, for your health, and for your happiness.

Here is why. According to Dr. Shane J. Lopez, ‘Negative messages are no more ‘realistic’ than your highest goals, and they rob you of agency.’

‘Negative messages deplete you, sap your agency, and keep you stuck. Disputing these messages will help you reclaim your motivation for the goals that matter to you most.’

If you want to achieve greatness, you must first embrace yourself. You must stop telling yourself negative things. If you do not, remember, ‘negative messages … keep you stuck.’ The question is, ‘Do you want to be stuck?’

If You Support Yourself, That Is Good Enough

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Your dream is your dream. Your life is your life. And your future is yours. If you are for yourself, no one can be against you.

If you are for your dreams, no one is going to be against them. Because they are your dreams. Because of that, do not expect everybody to love them, to support them, to nurture them. It won’t happen.

Some will criticize you. Some will call you names. Some will ignore it. Some will even stop talking to you. While others will just wait and see what is going to happen.

Rather than allowing them to demotivate you, why not use their negative words to power yourself to the next level? Do not worry about them. Because they don’t know what they are doing. They don’t know your dreams. They don’t know where you are going. And they are not happy with you. Because you are getting things done. Because you know where you are going.

Whether they are happy with you or not, you are enough. If you are for yourself, if you are for your dreams, if you are for your growth, no one can be against you. So keep being. Keep doing. And keep going. You will get there!