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Why Are You Waiting For Somebody Else To Fix You?

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I can’t fix you. Only you can fix yourself. Do not wait for somebody to come and fix you.

One way to fix yourself is to know what to stop doing. If what you are doing is not helping you, stop it.

“You are responsible for fixing yourself.”

Fixing yourself is not about changing your body shape; it is about changing your mindset. It is about how you see yourself, your life, your work. Rupi Kaur writes, “If you are not enough for yourself, you will never be enough for someone else.” You are good enough for yourself. You are good enough for your family. And you are good enough for the world. Because you are you.

You can’t fix yourself without first fixing your mind. Because everything happens in your mind.

If you take care of your mind, your body will take care of itself. Fixing is about your mind, not about your body. Your body has nothing to do with it.

“You are responsible for saving yourself.”

Fixing your life is about acceptance. It is about accepting who you are. It is not about beating yourself up. It is not about rejecting yourself. It is not about rejecting your life. It is about loving yourself. It is about loving your life.

Do not wait for people to fix you. Fix yourself. Because you are responsible for your life. According to Oprah Winfrey, “You are responsible for your life- and when you get that, everything changes. … So don’t wait for somebody else to fix you, to save you or complete you.” No one can do that. Only you have the power to fix yourself. Why not go ahead and do it?

There Is No Short Cut To Success

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There is no short cut to success. If you want to succeed in your life, you must do your work. No one is going to do your work for you.

Success comes from doing small things really well. Life is too short to waste your life chasing the wrong things. If you want to succeed, you must first be willing to make mistakes.

Again, success comes from making mistakes, lots of mistakes. If you are not ready and willing to make mistakes, you are not ready to make it in life.

There is no short cut to success in life. If you want to be successful in your life, you must do your own work.

If you want to do great things in your life, you must have the courage to do it. It is your responsibility to work on yourself. It is your responsibility to change yourself. No one is going to change you. Only you can change you. Why not do it? What are you waiting for?

George Washington Carver said, “There is no short cut to achievement. Life requires thorough preparation- veneer isn’t worth anything.”

Success requires thorough preparation. It requires you to do what you really do not want to do. It requires you to do what other people don’t want to do.

And you got to have self-confidence. And self-confidence means believing in yourself. And it also means believing in your abilities to get things done.

Don’t wait for success to come to you. It will never happen. Wherever it is, go get it.