Tag: Loneliness

The Meaning Of Being Lonely

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Loneliness is not you. You are not lonely. You are reconnecting with your yourself. You are becoming a better you.

You are reflecting on things that you could have done differently. You are redefining yourself.

You are not willing to go back to where you were yesterday. You are moving foward. You are cleaning up your dirty mind. You are simplifying your life.

You are healing your life. You are healing your wound. You are forgiving people who have done things to you.

Just because you are not with people, just because you are alone, it has nothing to do with how you are feeling right now. BUT

it has everything to do with what you want for YOU. It has everything to do with where you want to go. It has everything to do with your inner self, your best self. It has everything to do with your relationships with others.

When you are alone, you are not lonely. You are spending quality time with yourself. Being alone is not being lonely. It is being alive. It is being comfortable with yourself.

Be comfortable with yourself, no matter what is going on in your life. Because if you are not okay with yourself, you will find it hard to be okay with other people.

Why You Should Spend More Time With Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘It is good to be solitary, for solitude is difficult; that something is difficult must be a reason the more for us to do it.’- Rainer Maria Rilke

It is better to be with yourself than to be with people who don’t respect you, who don’t love you.

Be with yourself. Be comfortable with yourself. It is good to be alone. It doesn’t mean you are lonely. It means you want to spend quality time with yourself. It means you want to know yourself better.

When you are with yourself, you are more likely to hear what your inner self wants you do for yourself.

People don’t like to do it. They don’t want to go within themselves. Because they don’t want to change. They want to stay the same.

Do not do that. It is better to be with yourself than to be with people who don’t care about you.