How Is Life Treating You?

If life is not treating you well. if you are not getting the right results, if you are always beating yourself up, you have got to look into what is going on in your life.

Things are not just happening. They are happening for reasons. They are calling you to pay attention to what is going on, to what is important to you. But we are too busy to listen. We are after work. We are always driving, always moving.

Yes, you can drive yourself to do more, to create more, to live more, and to become more. But you can’t succeed in your own life if you do not have time for yourself.

No one succeeds like that. Life is not really about speed. Life is about care. It is about attention. It is about enjoying what you have, where you are, and what you are doing.

Life is more than speed. If you do not know who you are, for sure, speed is not going to matter when you are done pursuing other people’s dreams.

Speed matters when you are running your own race, when you are taking your time to master what you are doing, when you are not interested in who is behind you or who is ahead of you.

Whatever it is you are tolerating right now, you can change it. Whatever it is you are struggling with right now, this moment, you can take action to change it. Do not wait for another day.

Because the more you tolerate things, especially negative things, the worse they get.

If you want to make things better, no matter what they are, take big actions to change them. You can do it. Don’t wait anymore. Because now is your best time. Why not take it?

How To Build The Life You Want

In the words of Maulana Wahiduddin Khan, ‘Obstacles present no hindrance, for they open new avenues of intellectual advance.’

When you face a problem, what do you? Do you give up? Do you just say, ‘I am done. I can’t do it?’

Or do you try to figure things out? This is better. It is better to face what is in front of us than to leave it and just walk away.

Yes, you can walk away if it is not what you are really interested in, or what you want to do with your life.

‘You never build the life you want by getting lost in things you don’t want.’- Dan Rockwell

Because staying with what is not working is a waste of time.

If something is not going to make you a better human being, let it go. If you are not enjoying what you are doing, why do it?

Do not waste your time. Whatever it is that is NOT making you happy, that is stressing you, that is not adding anything to your life, if possible, let it go.

‘You can get what you want if you are willing to let go of what you do not want.’

Let it go. Because you need more time to do other important things, to live a better life, and to do a better work.

Because you can’t win by playing not to lose. You can’t win by not taking more risks. You can’t get what you want by keeping what you have. Because life is about investment.

To get more, you must invest more. You must do more. Learn more. And love more. The question is, will you do it? Do you have the courage to face what is right in front of you?